watching a kino with wife
sex scene comes on
get uncomfortable and anxious, feeling awkward
think to myself: “god I wish that was us”
I get having these awkward moments when watching with your parents, but not supposed to be your wife. Any sexless marriage bros here?
I'm 32 and I struggle to get/maintain erections. How did this fucking happen. 3 years ago I was begging my gf for sex when we started dating and we used to fuck daily, now that we live together like a married couple I've lost all potence and desire and only want to play video games while she begs for sex
My marriage isn't full-on sexless (yet) but whenever my wife and I are watching any film with a cheating subplot I always catch her biting her lip before she shoots me a dirty glare - as if I'm just a human chastity belt around her - which doesn't feel great either.
Have you tried cialis or got your hormones checked? For a long time I was like that and my test was low. Would rather spend time playing games with the bros than fuck. Now I am horny all the time.
Any sexless marriage bros here?
yeah man
apparently im a bad fuck
I don't know but I think its cause I stopped exercising. Work has been really stressful lately I get home at night, I have literally no time to do anything, I just wanna eat, chillax on video games, and sleep. I think its just stress/no exercise that killed my libido.
When we go on holidays and travel, we fuck like rabbits so I know I still have it in me.
what is the point of being married in a sexless marriage? not even sex is enough for me to want a femoid to be invading my space on a regular basis. do you normalfaggots enjoy being nagged at and having no independence?
You need to find the 1% of femoids who's not a mind-broken feminist bitter cunt who hates her parents and the world.
There's honestly no better feeling than coming home to the warm embrace of someone who loves you, having them hug you and sleeping while cuddling them and you forget about all the problems of the world. reminds me of coming home from school and your mum greeting you.
I'm engaged to an Asian cutie girl, they make top-tier wives.
Intertwined lives, you still love everything else about them, but yeah shit is frustrating. Apparently sexless marriages are common, which is shocking.
Should we tell him?
She actually said that to you? Brother….
But for real it takes two in sex if it’s bad it’s also on her.
3 years ago
Vaxxed?
lol
yeah, it basically depends on when was the last time we had sex, and if it was a ok fuck for her. so lot of awkward moment, obviously.
had kids
went two years without sex at one point
Its so fucking painful bros im so damn horny
Literally me. After she got pregnant second time she had bad pregnant sickness so no sex for 9 months. Then she needed 6months for her vagina to "recover" after painful birth. It's been 18months since I last even touched her and since it's been so long I don't think I ever want to.
its joever. start protecting your assets
They never tell you how much a woman loses her libido after kids man. Fucking frustrating.
In my case it has been due to vast alcohol consumption, among other strenuous addictions that preclude her entire sexual satisfaction. Luckily for me she is understanding, albeit demanding, for instance, that I quit drugs altogether and cold-turkey, which I have done without the slightest slip for the past four months or so: paradoxically enough this settled into a different kind of handicap, namely that I cum almost always too early, leaving her by the side of the bed, crestfallen and paler than usual —a semblance of rancor, so I fear, brewing up within herself at these iterated mishaps and blunders and failings.
More and more frequently I dream of shredding my balls with a razor so as to be done with this noisome imperative that sometimes takes on the insidiousness of a machine-like curse detrimental to love and understanding.
If you come too early just do a lot of foreplay. Rub, finger, and eat her out first.
Kinda happened to me but we've been together 11 years so I think it's normal to be less aroused. Thankfully her ass still excites me
My wives company I'd much better than sex. She's a warm soul that brightens my world.
Why should you have to choose one or the other? As a husband and wife you both deserve sex and company.
NTA but my testosterone is a hair above "normal" so insurance won't cover HRT. I'm 29 and should not be like this.
Same here dude, what a fucking joke. The range is so wide being near low is actually real low.
300 ng/dl is 'normal' but if you're at 299 they try to get you north of 600. Doesn't make any sense.
damn,here also after 2 wonderfull kids, barely seks i almost need to force it but i almost have no energy for it.
yet she can be jealous but she has zero interest in seks.
eat her out
Just fingerwork, or enjoy your oropharyngeal cancer.
I have the opposite problem
Watching kino
Get really into the setting, characters, start talking about it
Wife has no interesting input but keeps offering to fuck
I tested at 250 and my Endo who was East Asian said it was fine
My wife and I were virgins
Pretend to be another man flirting with her but never show your face. Until you are about to hook up with her. This will save your marriage
not fucking while watching kino
i watched lost highway mostly inside my ex, was fucking her from behind while spooned and was able to still see the tv. watched lotr trilogy this way too.
9 hours of uninterrupted coitus? 9 hours?That’s insane
yes
You guys need game. You gotta come off with a witty pickup line like you are someone else other than your husband. You gotta pretend that you are someone who is cucking you, it will drive your wife wild because it feels wrong but it's not wrong because it is with you, someone she loves and cares about (at least she is supposed to love and care about you).
Women love roleplay, it turns them on.
Been with gf for 11 years, haven't had sex for a year, haven't hugged for 4 months, havent said I love you for 6 months, haven't the guts to end it cos we have 2 kids.
*her husband
goddamn am i glad i missed that bullet
being single is OK bros
That's the cool part, it all sucks! I was a depressed teenager who thought 'I just need to move out', so I did, and everything was still terrible. So I thought, it's because I'm single, but I was still miserable with a girlfriend. So we moved in together, and life still sucked. So I figured, how can I be happy working for someone? That's the problem! So I started a business, but i'm still miserable. So I bought a house. Nothing. Engaged, nothing, married, nothing. I know. I need kids, that's it. But I had two, and I still stand in the shower every day wondering why I shouldn't kill myself. My marriage is a sexless, depressing mess. I love my kids, and they love me, but I would be worth more to them as a life insurance payout. I did everything right. All the shit you're meant to do. Yet it is still awful. Nothing ever changes.
The problem is that you are depressed and need counselling. If nothing ever makes you happy then you need to speak to someone.
Why is communication such a big hurdle for people to overcome?
Get a hobby
Sounds like you have depression anon. Nothing can “fix” it. Might be time for meds or some sort of therapy.
getting too old to have kids purely out of misplaced sentiment and idealism
How do you make the decision to start a family (and execute on it without settling too much) when you understand that all relationships are inherently transactional?
Tyrone agrees
Find someone you love and it wont feel like a transaction
Women don't love the same way I do
Trust me many don’t, but you can find one who does
Have you considered the possibility that the problem is with you and not the things around you? Plenty of people are happy with much less.
I've been in love, short term and long, and I've been both the dumper and the dumped, been friends with other couples; I've seen it all, really. It's not worth investing in something that can disappear overnight because someone else suddenly experienced some emotions
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