I can't imagine how disheartening it would be to see your own father cry

high father myself,

Nice. Worse case scenario your child needs you but you're too high and your kid dies. Probably won't happen though.

Good thing you did that, sis. That crying little incel chud needs to be taught a lesson.

I saw it once as a teenager on Christmas. Parents are split and my mom rides him for child support extra hard around the holidays. Had to sit there and watch my dad admit he feels like a failure because he can’t even afford nice things for his son on Christmas. I was 15, I didn’t even want Christmas gifts anymore.
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But seeing your dad cry can actually help you level with him depending on the scenario. No need to cry over small things, not should you, but if there’s an honest cry that’s built up for years, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that assuming it’s not over bitch shit

Why? It's a normal emotion. My dad cried at stuff like the end of Shane. He was in the Korean War. What a load of malarkey.

The only time I remember seeing my dad cry was when I was like 7 or 8 and was having a really bad asthma attack. I was lying in bed at night having a lot of trouble breathing and he was sitting on my bed checking on me and I could hear him sniffling and could see tears.

asthma

lol nerd

If my son told me he was trans, he'd be the one crying

Fathers are not entitled to eternal forgiveness just for cumming in a broad. I could see the argument for always loving your mother no matter what (she did carry you for nine months after all, that counts for something), but always loving your father? What the fuck for?

Yeah happened to mine. He was always the tough guy when I was little, when I went to college he cracked and blew up with all of this psychological stuff, saw a psych for childhood traumas, started crying routinely and it was so weird.

I've put a lot of thought into why this is so uncomfortable and disheartening for kids as I've recently become a dad myself. All emotions are contagious, and both parents play a special role. Mom is caregiver, nurturer, emotional, dad is the source of strength, security. When dad cries he shows childlike, womanlike weakness, the inability to control simple emotions and to crumble in the face of duress. If dad cries under simple emotional duress, how could he ever face the real dangerous challenges out there? If someone, or something, attacks you, or the family, in critical and scary situations, you want dad to be there and you need to maintain an image of him as stronger than the danger. That's why it's so depressing and painful to witness, it's reality altering and leaves you feeling exposed.

To that end, this is why I think women desire men that they fear at least somewhat. If they can't fear their man, who ever would? How could he ever protect her? If she fears her man, she knows there is an element of danger, of strength, in there, that could be turned against the dangers of the world. Otherwise, she's simply dating another woman. Roles are very real and very ingrained and if you don't fulfill yours as a man it's a ticking time bomb. You will never get any respect.

The parental ick

Our dog died two days ago and I cried in front of my kids for the first time. I'm not sure if I fucked up or not.

I've never seen my father cry but I also wouldn't mind, assuming he had a good reason. It's only human. I don't expect my parents to be robots.

you didn't fuck up. There's nothing wrong with mourning a real loss or trauma. If you hold your emotions for too long you'll just get a heart attack in your 50s. There's a time and place for crying. It's not always. It's not never. And that's what children should learn.

Just don't make it a habit, and obviously there's a difference between tearing up and breaking down like a baby. This is a space where you simply can't trust female advice as they simply don't understand the male perspective or role, the only thing they can offer is "well why don't you become a woman" and obviously that isn't in our or their best interests.

I thank your dad for saving my country, what a great man

nice blogposts

When I was a little kid my parents came home from being out on the town and came in to say goodnight to me, I was in bed. My dad stumbled over and was too drunk to stand up, and then he ad my mom had this big drunken row about it while he was sprawled out on the floor. It's one of my earliest memories. I don't think crying would be that big a deal.

Never seen him cry, he himself said that he doesn't believe in depression but boy does he become a total retard spouting the stupidest shit when he's drunk.

It was the right thing to do. Men shouldn't show their emotions

Being a dad really is some shit. In less than 10 years I've supposed to have gone from an anime nerd NEET raised by a single mother to the platonic ideal of masculine security. My wife will even hit me with comments like "you're a dad, you're supposed to know how to pick a watermelon". It's a constant dread of failure.

I never even stuck penis in vagina.

You just have to fake it till you make it, even if you're blatantly wrong.

In your wife's defense you really should know how to pick a watermelon.

How does one pick a watermelon? Isn’t it literally like any other melon?

You can tell by the sound if you tap it.

His father is dying is cancer but the kid insists on not carrying on his legacy.

I DON'T WANT TO BE WALT JR I WANNA HAVE MY OWN GAY NAME

He literally could've waited for his father to be dead to be so insensitive. I hated the son character almost as much as I loathed Skylar. Skylar was never in the right.

Takes like 3 secs to google... dont be helpless, bro
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Getting high usually makes me "feel" music more. But he should stop doing that. Sets a bad example. There is nothing in weed that any of us should be searching for.

Imagine a good watermelon. Now imagine a bad watermelon. See the difference?

He is me

but the crying is so gay and pathetic

Yeah. It can be. Like, you just don't want to hear it because there's nothing logically you can do about it. There isn't a problem to fix. It's just now you're listening to the sound of someone you love expressing hurt and you just have to sit there and be ill-equipped to handle it. Hug your dad bro.

American culture is so strange, at the same time they hate their family and throw their kids out at the age of 18 and mostly don't want much to do with each other.
Then on the other hand if your father was an abusive piece of shit that was no good at all to you, they think he deserves forgiveness just because he's your father.

It's so strange.

Who the fuck wants to be a bald high school teacher with severe low self-esteem?

I know anon, I literally can't stop thinking about Americans. I live over 3000 miles away but I spend 95% of my day thinking about them. Do Americans really occupy my mind constantly? Yes.

You always say this sarcastically, but yes American is fucking everywhere, matters for almost everything, and this is what it’s like to live in a country that isn’t America

Why not? Weed is a million times healthier than alcohol but it’s demonized because jews want you drunk and docile

MY OWN GODDAMN SON ... DIDN'T EVEN HAVE BREAKFAST

what it’s like to live in a country that isn’t America

Sometimes I think about this and it makes me want to cry. I feel so bad for non-Americans.