Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?

Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?

Are men really like this?

Yes, long as they're not a hambeast

Me so lonely me so horny!

So you're saying hambeast men are less likely to be pathetic simps?

been married 12 years I still get like this

Yes.
I haven't touched another human being in over 10 years. (No joke.) Infants literally die from that, you know?
Life as a man is incredibly lonely, so of course we want the affection of women.

Man gets literally zero affection from anyone for a long enough period of time

By the time some random roastie flirts with him he is so touch starved he remembers it for years

I'm 39 years old (remember, you're here forever) and haven't been with a woman in 6 years. The only time a woman touches me these days is once every 6-8 weeks when I get a haircut.

no woman has ever showed me attention, so I don't know.

Only lonely men. If you’ve got no confidence issues with women, this type of clingy attention seeker is simply off-putting.

obligatory

right now I'm at a point in life where i feel like i have outgrown the need for women, love, sex and all that frozen horseshit. of course there's the biologist need but i know for a fact now after having lived a fair bit of life in 3 different countries that there's no woman out there who can please me the way i can myself. Unless of course she's like one of the San Fernando valley whores i like so much. But then again we're taking about satisfying your selfish needs in a relationship right? that's what modern relationships are all about right? lust and play-acting. That's right. You see i haven't ever had sex, touched a woman or been loved by a woman, because i never quite came into my own in life so far. I do have an active life with full time job and live in the probably the 2nd more whoriest city in the states inb4 any of you homos crawl out of the woodworks. the way i see it, it's seems to be a necessity to bend over to women when you're young, do the whole song and dance charade all that bullshit playacting, but I've already had such a tiring life and i don't really have any energy for women or their drama. Of course as a member of society you're not allowed to feel above everyone else like you're some hot shit, well you can, but you'll likely die lonely. All in all, i can say that the mating aspect of life is one ugly broken record. well the only to conduct yourself in life henceforth after this realization is hopefully hurry up and find some retard woman who's not too objectionable and be ready with some marcus aurelius wisdom about taking it with a chin up. God i fucking hate love, sex and relationships like you wouldn't believe.

When I was a shut-in I didn't have to deal with people and could cope with being alone, now I have to interact with people again and I have to deal with feelings of attraction again and it sucks a big bag of dicks.

wise words
except fuck desperately trying to settle with someone. its not necessary.

ive been in enough relationships to know that im just bad for people so now i avoid them to stop wasting their time

I'm 37 and I stopped caring. Men, women, people mostly annoy me. I'm pretty much certain I will die alone and a virgin.

i am like that. but fortunately i fall out of love the second she shows she doesn't care about me at all.

Is it worse to be a permavirgin or to have experienced dating and sex but end up alone?

I mispoke. I meant men fall in love with women easily, so long as they're feminine and semi-attractive

the attention thing isn't even necessary, she can be attractive woman who you never met or ever meet and men will be obsessed with her, just look at any forum that has discussions about celebs, Anon Babble, reddit, youtube, social media, whatever or even irl

definitely the latter since you can remind yourself what it all was actually like and not besotted with the fantasy of it all

How old are you?

This you? lol

Men are dogs, and modern women decided to starve them instead of being good girls who took them to bed

He looks much better than you tranny lol

I lost my v-card to a girl at 25 and lived with her for almost 2 years. Now I'm 30 and can't stop thinking about how lucky I was and how much I fucked up. I became a bitter incel again and don't even remember what sex feels like except now I want to kill myself because I know it won't ever happen again.

30 now

instantly decide to move in with a random girl you had sex with

what’s the story here. what caused this decision

Only whites. White men are weak.

uhh? he lives a very active and productive life, ok?

except the beard, the meal prep shit because i take some pleasure in cooking and the tryhard Dostoyevsky who's the last person to learn anything in life from, I'd say yes.

french

straight up i'd kill myself before being french

you vill be cucked by arabs and you vill be proud

We talked online a lot before actually meeting. I liked her and she was really hot. Now that I'm 30 I don't think this could happen again. And no I can't get her back, she has a restraining order against me since I've got convicted for domestic violence. I deserve my misery. It's over. Thanks for reading my blog.

so glad i'm an american mutt that doesn't have to give a shit about arabs like you eurocucks

no, I don't have a job

We talked online a lot before actually meeting. I liked her and she was really hot. Now that I'm 30 I don't think this could happen again.

literally just download the apps, tinder, hinge, bumble, chrsitian mingle, plenty of fish, whatever... people NEED to connect, and yes women are also included in the people category, they're just as desperate to be with someone as you are, they just have access to more people.

I agree.

you wish. every western country has a new population of immigrants that flooded in during the last 30 years

Does he go to the barber every day?

i'm down with having more latinas in my country, they cook, they clean, they fuck, they fight, plus they have those cute brown nipples even if they are pale as fuck. can't imagine a better woman.

Look at those hot single moms.

bluds getting genocided, warplan: Neanderthal

it's called basic hygiene, chud

I mean the only "bad" thing about his life is that he's single I guess? And the 1 hour commute to and from work as well lol

Also the lack of social media use and any sort of technology is hard to believe. I do t anybody swims more than watches movie or plays vidya.

never had a female friend in my life

I had a crush on every cute girl I met so I was too intimidated to talk to any of them

in my mid 30s become a twitch streamer

literally the first in my life I’ve talked to a woman for this long. Usually around 2-4 hours per collab.

have a viewer who’s taken an interest in me for some reason

she’ll join me on stream if I’m playing a coop game and even just hang out and invite to play some coop game off stream if we don’t get a change to hang on on stream for a while

It feels so weird. I was pretty close to being a woman hating Anon Babble incel, but meeting these women online pretty much changed how I viewed the entire gender. I mean I’m sure a majority of women out there are still pretty shitty, but now I’m kinda reminded that there are some really nice ones out there too.

it's mostly fat goblinas and criminals

Are French people naturally this swarthy? I assumed this guy was a MENA migrant

I do t anybody swims more than watches movie or plays vidya

holy mother of NEETS. this is a sad post

it's mostly hard working people who don't want to do anything that would get the attention of the authorities and get sent back to a shithole country.
occasionally there's some thug that needs to be deported but those are very very few and far between.

that's why having a social media presence can be so useful as annoying as it is. putting yourself out there yields unexpected results

that's why having a social media presence can be so useful as annoying as it is

this only applies to peoples who are trying to do a public facing job.
if you're randomchud69cubicleguy, nobody gives a shit.
women will flock to guys trying to obtain some kind of public status/notoriety even if they are broke idiots.

t.

He probably just goes home to scroll and watch TV shows most days

you can see a 2nd pair of chopsticks at the end, he's having bday sushi with his girl(male)friend

We talked online a lot before actually meeting. I liked her and she was really hot

So why would this hot girl not only agree to meet up, but decide to have sex with AND live together with some random virgin online? Care to elaborate?

>in my mid 30s become a twitch streamer

You should be spending that time researching/trading the markets and lifting + doing local community volunteer work. That will net you even better interpersonal growth + sort out your money situation, which I'm sure is not great.

Saying unironically that you're getting into twitch streaming in your mid 30s is.... not great....

local community volunteer work.

would rather not help feed the local drug addicts

You type like a woman trying to type like a man.

You should be spending that time researching/trading the markets

you are retarded if you think an individual should be trying to make money trading.
max your 401k if you have one, contribute as much as you can to an ira, throw leftover in shit like VOO and let it ride.

It's common knowledge a man's interest in a woman peaks at first and decreases over time

Early 20s incel's idea of what a man should be doing in his mid 30s.

It'd help him get out of his shell more than talking to e-thots.
sneed
I'm literally living on crypto gains as we speak. If you're of passable IQ and you have a bit of balls you can leverage it easy. If not, that's not my problem.

kek at 3 instant rage replies to this

I had a girlfriend for 2 years and yeah it's less stressful now that she's gone and less to worry about but I do miss her. I feel really bad. For the first part of our relationship I still had feelings for some online oneitis manic pixie dream girl who was actually a reatrded alcoholic. She was the first woman to give me attention, buy me a computer game for us to play, and I fell hardcore in love. I never felt that strongly for my girlfriend, even though I did cry when we broke up and a few times afterward. Now I have no feelings at all for that oneitis and still feelings for gf, mostly guilt and shared memories. Yes she was obese but I still loved her. I hope she didn't throw away all the gifts I made for her.

too pussy to bet on himself and get good

Not my problem.

only if you've never loved.

I wouldn't know, no woman has shown me any attention, ever.

I thought like you once. But no, that's completely wrong and you begin to realize that you actually are just lonely and filled with such crushing despair that you make up this whole thing about liking being alone as a cope. That doesn't mean you want to do normalfag shit or whatever but realizing that you're growing older with no companionship or anyone to really talk to or share things with who isn't some bitch therapist silently judging you and it really fucking sucks.

good goy

Most women you might fall in love with immediately will have a personality or certain traits that makes you lose interest over time. Truly getting to know someone takes years

No one is coming to save you. Come to terms with this and do something about it. No one gives a fuck about the redpilled homeless guy.

2 hour lunch??

I'm the worst of both worlds. Had one girlfriend, tried having sex a few times but I was really bad at it so it never went anywhere or reached climax, then we broke up and I haven't had anyone since.

I'm literally living on crypto gains as we speak

good job you bought a lottery ticket and it turned out to be a winner, keep doing it if it's such a sure thing, go tell everyone in your personal life you'll get them more money if they let you invest for them.

first at work

starting at 9 am

kek he's French alright

Where is his social life?

it's a scale, I believe most people get that. no one's perfect but when the good outweighs the bad you can make it work

I gave up on online dating apps. This feels like an humiliation ritual.
I look decent and take care of myself even though I was a full-time drukgod at the time. I guess I fell into the "I can fix him" category. Alcohol helped me open up and appear more charismatic than I actually am. I'm sober now and I never felt so sterile and boring.

This feels like an humiliation ritual.

it's just a numbers game but you can also just get hobbies and go places where people with similar interests gather.

good job you bought a lottery ticket

This is what retards think crypto is for most market participants. Meanwhile most who do decently enough at it fuck up huge amounts along the way as they develop proper risk management and learn to survive through bear markets etc. I've fucked up huge amounts before as I was learning, and had to mentally compartmentalize that and focus my way through it without it messing with me. Surviving in any market is doable if you want to, but you have to want to. It isn't as easy as you think.

There are literal single mothers who learn how to be successful at this shit for the sake of their kids, meanwhile you defer to pseud copes like "muh lottery".

This is what retards think crypto is

it's a 'volatile currency' you're a retard if you think it's anything else and again, keep putting your money where your mouth is if you really think you can time any market.

keep putting your money where your mouth is

I put small bits of money where my mouth is now. The rest of my capital I protect and grow.

Dude looks like a tired 45 yo freshly divorced dad

This feels like an humiliation ritual.

It is.

they just have access to more people.

Which makes it pointless to even bother when you're an adult and every good woman is already taken. They expect some millionaire rapper or athlete to settle for them, not the average guy.
The hobbies meme is bullshit advice, too. Girls don't like men with the same hobbies as them and have you even tried it yourself? Most girls there are taken, they're not looking to date a guy who's just getting started and sucks at it.

Did you meet her on a dating app, or something else? How did the relationship end up happening?

But the point of a humiliation ritual is to make you part of the in-group of the Tribe. This is not what's happening, you're just getting regular humiliated without any benefits. No ritual involved.

This. I hope I won't look like that at 30 lol

haha

when you're an adult and every good woman is already taken

not true at all, guys are constantly fucking up and throwing away good relationships for random hookups.

They expect some millionaire rapper or athlete to settle for them, not the average guy.

oh you're a redpill dumbfuck, go jerk off to miami bimbos, i'm talking about regular human women that account for 99% of the female population, not these random gold diggers and onlyfans whores you see all day online. touch grass.

You should be able to preemptively defend yourself against anyone with face tattoos. I've never seen someone with them who isn't also a massive psychotic piece of shit and that includes Tyson and Pacific Islanders. Only lunatics get them.

He's lying bro. Anon Babblecel zoomies all have the same script.

JUST LIFT BRO

FOCUS ON BEE-ING URSELF BRO

DON'T WORRY ABOUT WOMEN BRO

MY JOB? CRYPTO MILLIONAIRE BRO

It's fake LARP shit.

He's lying bro.

These are always cathartic moments: the indirect compliment anon offers me every time anon insists that I couldn't possibly be telling the truth and I must be lying. Thank you.

everyone is lonely in life. the lower classes even more than the upper classes. The upper classes have sex travel and money to keep them happy. that's why society needs every kid to be socialized appropriately. if you get bullied, miss out on social life, are too poor for it then you tend to lookbat life and people from the outside. That's why normies are such fucking morons. Socialization prevents you from becoming too individual because humans don't survive being individualist. I mean they don't do well in school, college, office or marriage. Socialization ensures than no one gets too smart for their own good. That's why normies with normal social lives are so fucking lame with their predictable lives. relationship in college, friends circle etc etc. big deal.

The upper classes have sex travel and money to keep them happy

poors fuck more than any other class, rich are too busy working.

Where is the lie? If you live like that good for you but believing that majority of people today aren't glued to social media is foolish

I'm the complete opposite; bitch I don't know you and I don't care to know you

bros technique is catastrophic
how the fuck is your stroke that wide

put this retard on fingertip drill 8x25 every warmup.

lol no, but keep believing that scam

eating breakfast at work

Grim

3rd world countries don't have insane birth rates

good one retard

Coalburners are much more apt to fuck around in the pool because they can slip in and suddenly not a single nigger can insta-rape them anymore.

What's his "job"? Editing TikTok videos? That's retarded

I only attract gays and fat/ugly women. It's fucking embarrassing.

It do be like that but despite thinking about them I just don't do anything nor do I want to, I just don't want to persue anything as I do believe I'm 100% undesirable and I'd rather not go through the humiliation and mental pain that comes with dating

The thing is that I literally never got any female affection ever and I grew up with everyone calling me ugly and treating me like shit, completely fucks with your psyche

I used to be like that. Now I have very little interest in women and absolutely zero for at least an hour after ejaculation.

runs 14km in 5 mins

What

supposed to be his daily routine but cannot actually successfuly pour water onto a teabag

2hr commute for a 3hr job

goes all in with proteinmaxxing then had a big carb meal innthe evening anyway

Fuck the french

kek this is some normies publicity to link to his dating profile.

I have a gf and still fall in love with every other women whos nice to me, and attractive

I'd rather kill myself than do local community volunteer work, whatever the fuck that entails

I don't think I have spent any birthday between 30-34 not alone. I'll come to yours but I couldn't care less about my own, it's just a date.

That exact realization is where it changes.

Once a man realizes some women are just being friendly, he stops falling in love with all of them.

can make women laugh

cant ever get further than this

What gives?

It'd be nice if a (asian) girl was nice to me and cared about me it's actually the only thing I want in life anymore. Life is shit, and it's too hard to go through it alone

No curiosity to try a hooker?

every woman I ever talk to skips town/country

This unironically happened like 5 times.

He's peacocking

God keeps throwing women at me that share my interests and sense of humor down to being a perfect match, literally having the time of our lives when we hang out and can talk for hours

They're all already in love with someone else and eventually focus more and more on their BF and move away from my life

Am I cursed? Is this some kind of a cruel joke?

Boyfriend had the same experience as you. They just got there first

Sounds like that movie with that dude who women had sex with so they would find their true love

Trips of trvth
I think I remember watching that on TV back in the day lmao

post bank account / crypto portfolio

good luck chuck, its an okay movie

some do, some don't
the religious ones, mainly. not really economic

some do, some don't

please show me a 3rd world country with a lower birthrate than the US or another 1st world country

ah yes the short lived Dane Cook era

attention

At that point you're practically married.
m.youtube.com/watch?v=EOMeBoHASX8

girl gamers are the worst, good luck with that

Nobody likes to be alone forever, anon. That is just a cope. You're just desperate and tired of feeling pain so you shut it down and ignore your own feelings and needs, hoping that the numbness will help you cruise your way towards a painless existence. But you know damn well that it's just a massive cope. Try to look at yourself in the mirror and just state what you truly want from life.

paragraph of pure projection

You’re just sad at this point lmaooo

I spent 12 years without a gf since college and I thought I was alright, and the second a girl showed interest in my recently I almost broke down. I didn't realize how badly I missed and need affection. I genuinely almost cried.

That's because everyone has downs anon, everyone feels lonely at some point. But it's a matter of perspective, sometimes it's easier to go with the flow and trying feels like too much effort for pretty much nothing. But ultimately the way you look at your life is up to you.

That's what I keep telling my autistic friend. He goes on and on about how "I don't need women i'm fine alone" and constantly talk about supressing his urge to look at asses. Female attention will fucking kill him on the spot.

how many viewers do you get? how is the money?

Few men can really be happy alone. Usually they need a strong spiritual reason and some strict routine where they dont interact with women very often. Coping with porn and videogames and pretending that you dont care about women anymore is just a pathetic lie.

He's probably not even single, this guy has a wife and kid

In my early 30s, I work from home, have no social life, and the only person I interact with IRL is my therapist I visit every other week. But I handle the loneliness pretty well, and the sad fact is I could probably live like this the rest of my life.

characters have a meetcute on public transport

this would never happen in 2025.
fuck smartphones, social media, and airpods for taking this away from us

I wish I could work from home. All I want in life is to just have a comfortable remote job. Why didn't I learn to code? Why am I so stupid? Fuck, I'd even work a call centre-tier pajeet job if I could just do it from home.

tech support wfh is still very much a thing in current year. 0 skill job, just have a working pc and mic and like be able to read the checklist

Do you tell your therapist all you have are negative thoughts?

Mostly the same. I used to have friends in my 20s (male and female), but i just dont feel like talking with them anymore. Sometimes i feel like a gf would give me the support i need to be more productive, but i dont think that i could manage all the micro level bullshit that makes a relationship work. The pressure of getting older on your own is fucked, tho

surely you could do a coding bootcamp and be qualified for a WFH job?

wife starts fight over absolutely retarded thing

At least you incels don't have to deal with this

I'll look into it.
I tried sticking with freecodecamp.org/learn/2022/responsive-web-design/ but I really don't have a head for it. Do you have a recommendation?

try to explain the pain of being chronically single to normies

they always give the same bullshit "if you aren't happy alone you won't be happy in a relationship". "you have to love yourself before you can love other people" advice

the people that say this are usually in relationships themselves too

money isn't a big deal lol t. someone who doesn't need to worry about money

relationships aren't a big deal lol t. someone who has never been lonely over an extended period of time

It's almost like some people are out of touch

same, a few years ago when I got along with a girl to the point of getting my first ever actual date, I was utterly terrified. down to the guts. not even my most stressful exams (and I've got quite a few) had made me feel this way. and of course I fucked it up, but covid sure didn't help

this. nowadays just looking around at people in public transport (looking, not staring) already makes you seem like a weirdo. fuck this world.

Why do people stress out over exams? I usually look forward to taking exams, it means I'm done with whatever course I'm taking and have the course credit in the bag.
There is literally nothing scarier than being rejected by someone you like

You sound gay. Stop watching anime.

honestly I feel like a good relationship is more fulfilling than money. I see so many guys working as remote software engineers who even own their own homes yet are lonely and depressed because they have no gf

yes, I'm 34 and haven't spoken to a woman that wasn't my mother or grandmother since junior high

Albeit I wasn’t a virgin before it, but I’m in my first relationship now and honestly now that I know what a relationship is like, I’d be ok being single if it didn’t work out

I love my gf to no end, but the amount of work that a healthy relationship requires is a lot. It’s worth it, because I love having someone to fuck/kiss/cuddle, but also it is tough at times and life would be “easier” without a partner

I’m guessing having kids are the same. A ton of work and “worth it” in the end but sucks badly at times during

the worst is women. either you complain about loneliness with a little anger, and they'll claim it's all your fault, either you complain with a little depair, and they might get compassionate but then always say that "some other girl" will surely like you. except it's never her.

life would be “easier” without a partner

is it though?

when you're single you have to do literally everything alone. at least when you're in a relationship you can split the responsibilities.
for example, if you're in a relationship, maybe you buy the groceries but your gf cooks the meal. if you're single, you have to buy the food AND cook it.

it was not simple college exams, rather one-time national competitive exams whose success and rank will stick to your CV for your entire career. yet those were less stressful than the fear of being emotionally rejected.

Actually good skills to talk to girls,not the ugliest guy either

When things get serious need to ghost them and run away.

"OK, being a virgin forever is actually not that bad"

Feel regret days after

Shit fucking sucks. Changing bad habits is a pain in the ass.

yeah he's a retard being alone is misery man was not made to be alone the first chapter of the first book ever written is literally a guy in paradise alone and being miserable because he didn't have anyone with him. it's human nature

you're her clown, not a romantic prospect

are you talking about the bible?
eve literally caused the downfall of humanity though

the first chapter of the first book ever written

Achkually in Genesis 1 man and woman are created at the same time.

so what. I don't care. it's all shit anyway

Being alone sucks but also is more freeing as you have all the time in the world for yourself
Being in a relationship requires quite a lot of time and money because you need to maintain it and be there for your gf
I guess if you have all your shit together it's not that bad but if you're still struggling then I wouldn't go for it

when you're struggling is the most important time to have someone with you

How much does having a gf cost really? After fixed expenses I'm living on $450/mo which really makes it hard to approach women because I'm ashamed of being a poorfag, no way I could eat out or go on dates or buy her clothes and makeup.

homoeconomicus ahhh materialists ass golem ass npcs lol

the thing that really bothers me about modern dating is that men are still expected to fulfill their traditional masculine gender role (make the first move, ask her out, pay for her meal, buy her shit etc) but women aren't expected to fulfill theirs.

the moment you say you want a woman with a single digit body count or who knows how to cook, you're an insecure incel misogynist

I'm 26 years old and a virgin.

You described me down to the avoiding looking at women's asses part, even though i'm not autistic, just schizoid i think. At the gym if a woman comes to a station next to me i make sure to walk to the opposite corner of the gym inbetween my sets and never look in her direction so she doesn't think i'm weird and creepy. Thankfully i've gone 22 years without any female attention so i don't think there is a risk of any coming my way soon.

she can buy her own clothes and makeup and if she's moving in with you, she's helping out with rent or covering a couple bills at least.

In 2025, you have almost no chance of getting a coding job from completing a bootcamp. Even CS grads are struggling.

i'm not autistic

if a woman comes to a station next to me i make sure to walk to the opposite corner of the gym inbetween my sets and never look in her direction so she doesn't think i'm weird

even though i'm not autistic

nta but it all depends on if you net any whales. I make anywhere from $75-$100 a month and I get sub 10 viewers with only an active 50 followers. I'm guaranteed like $40 from people who always re-sub and the rest comes from people donating. As a hobby it's not bad since you make some dosh to pay for vidya.

At the gym if a woman comes to a station next to me i make sure to walk to the opposite corner of the gym inbetween my sets and never look in her direction so she doesn't think i'm weird and creepy

That's from low self esteem. You believe that you are instantly registered as weird and creepy to every young female on sight. Maybe you had bad experiences growing up or something that led you here. But it's not normal to think you're being judged so harshly just from existing and going about your day. It wouldn't be so unhealthy if you simply ignored them, but you actively go out of your way to deny yourself access to amenities you pay your own money for, just because you fear being judged for doing literally thing wrong. You have to work towards realizing you're entitled to basic shit in life, especially if you pay for it. You should not automatically cede every space because you fear you'll be bullied for just living.

Yes, it’s true. There are some aspects that are better in relationships and some aspects that are worse

Emotional burden, for example, is one. Rather than just dealing with my own emotions, I am dealing with hers too. That’s part of the deal and I don’t regret it, but since she’s still working on emotional regulation sometimes she can get really pissed off at small things because she makes them bigger in her head than they actually are

Wtf lol

Yeah i have zero self esteem despite being quite successful in most aspects of life (excluding social, never had any friends or anything). I thought "if i get jacked/learn to play guitar/get perfect grades in uni/learn a martial art etc i will find self confidence within myself" but it doesnt work like that i guess.
I don't know where this genuine primal reptilian fear of women stems from, but if there is an unknown woman somewhere my thoughts turn immediately into "get the fuck out of here RIGHT NOW". I am unable to LOOK at an unfamiliar woman. I subconsciously keep her out of my field of vision constantly. It's like a superpower

make some dosh to pay for vidya.

pay for vidya

I don't know where this genuine primal reptilian fear of women stems from

ur mom

"you have to love yourself before you can love other people" advice

This mindset might be THE most destructive normie-ism when it comes to relationships. It contains two incredibly caustic ideas which have ruined the dating ecosystem for multiple generations of young adults:

1. You have to reach a level of nirvana tier self actualization where you become "the best possible version of yourself" before you can even think about asking someone out for coffee. If you do no not achieve this, you will most likely not be able to start a relationship and in the unlikely event you do it will be doomed to failure.

2. You cannot actively pursue a relationship or desire one for its own sake, it must simply come into your life as an act of serendipity. If you are a quote unquote """good person""", a fulfilling relationship will simply find its way to you as a matter of karma. The only reason this would not be the case

This is born out of the shit eating normalfags dual desires to use a mundane non-accomplishment as evidence to humblrebrag implicitly that they're morally better than someone else ("I managed to convince my field hockey wife to fuck me, that means I'm a normalone haver and can't be a loser!") as well as present themselves as the compassionate wise fountain of life advice to someone they consider beneath them even though they very obviously do not give a shit, are giving terrible counterproductive advice, and would better serve everyone involved if they just stated bluntly that they actually don't care.

Young men especially but young women to a lesser degree as well will put off getting into a serious relationship for the sake of some nebulous idea of "self improvement" which even then often ends up being a waste of time because the type of people offering them this advice won't be honest into what that actually entails. They won't realize this is bullshit until they hit their 30s and have to scramble to get married and have kids.

Why don't you have male friends?

I have never fallen in love in my entire life and I'm 29 years old. I am not even sure what love is.
I mean I see beautiful girls and I recognize them as beautiful and would like to be intimate with them, but never ever did I go home and continue thinking about anyone really, except for maybe my close family members when they need help or something like that. Never understood the "oneitis" meme since I never experienced it. High school, college or now at work, all the same.

Am I broken? Does "falling in love" just happen or should I actually try to actively do something for that to happen? I just go through life, but this entire part has missed me entirely.

28

all this and he can't find the time to shave
maybe he's a muslim it is paris after all

Are men really like this?

Only the good men. And there's a window. Once it's over they're gone.

Forgot to add in:

*The only reason this would not be the case is if you're fundamentally a bad or unworthy person. This is the basis for the incel moral panic that's been going on for the last decade+.

infatuation is what happens first, then after a few months that goes away and maybe you'll have some feelings of love that have begun to develop.
love is mostly just the willingness to sacrifice for a person in a way you wouldn't for anyone else, sometimes to an unhealthy degree.

id like to do it for money and not to feel so lonely when playing single player games but the way I use my PC just probably wouldn't work on twitch or even kick maybe, I like to browse Anon Babble or scroll through pirate sites for games / movies / tv and then there is the chance of porn / bbc / cp

its probably worth to just try it i guess

be me

fairly normal upbringing, no trauma, had lots of friends and a loving family

grew up around women, don't have any sort of freudian phobia of women or anything

not a male model but I consider myself decent looking, tall to boot

tfw just turned 25 and have never had a gf

I really want a therapist to analyze me because how the fuck did I end up this way.

sure, i've always been a bit of a passive wallflower, i'm not on any dating apps, i don't use social media, i spend 90% of my time either at work or at home and i've never actually asked out any women but jesus, is that really enough to doom to a life without any love or romantic attention?

do i have to a constantly extroverted charismatic casanova who's constantly asking out women at every opportunity to actually get a gf?

doing local community volunteer work

hahahahaaha

I really want a therapist to analyze

that's not what therapists do, you want a psychologist.
therapists are just wagies with minimal training required that just listen to you talk and tell you that your feelings are valid

I can't tell if your post is sarcastic or not, but you just admitted you spend most of your life in your home or working. Do you expect a woman to just break in to your bedroom?

i'm not on any dating apps, i don't use social media, i spend 90% of my time either at work or at home and i've never actually asked out any women

I CAN'T BELIEVE THINGS AREN'T JUST HAPPENING TO ME WHILE I DO NOTHING TO ACTUALIZE THEM

Literally the ONLY thing you have to do to become a 30 year old virgin is not approach women. That's it.

It blows my mind how normalfags think it's an impossible feat, like they live on a different planet where their natural impulses drive them to constantly approach women. It's as natural to them as breathing.

no, but I thought a situation like from eternal sunshine or 500 days of summer might happen.

in both of those movies, the male character is just sort of minding his own business then a girl approaches him

women do approach men sometimes if they're drunk enough. if you're decent looking and go to a bar enough times you'll probably have at least ONE girl make a move on you

Maybe 2 or 3 per stream. Once in a blue moon someone will buy a sub. Honestly my numbers are shit for someone who’s been doing it as long as I have. But it’s a great way to not feel lonely, provided you can find at least one or two people to constantly return to your channel.

they always give the same bullshit "if you aren't happy alone you won't be happy in a relationship". "you have to love yourself before you can love other people" advice

they say it because it's true.
if you want to be in a happy/healthy relationship, you need to be the kind of person that someone would want to be in a relationship with.
nobody sees a boring miserable/borderline suicidal fuck and thinks 'sign me up for this wild ride'.
it's literally the elizabeth olsen quote from Liberal Arts "You think it's cool to hate things. And it's not. It's boring. Talk about what you love and keep quiet about the things that you don't."

Aww my friend.
Sadly this is rarely the case. You gotta get your head out of other peoples movies and take control og your own.

boring miserable borderline suicidal

You just described most women and dudes are still fighting to date them

It's all a numbers game. I don't want to say what you want is impossible, since I've had two girlfriends who approached me, but if you don't take the initiative to do something, it probably won't happen. That isn't just dating, it's everything in life.

in both of those movies, the male character is just sort of minding his own business then a girl approaches him

we call that 'male fantasy' because it's fantasy, you're not going to just have something fall into your lap, you have to work for it.
put yourself in situations where something can happen and eventually it will.

i also agree mr. rakesh
go ilon ma!

and dudes are still fighting to date them

i didn't say date, i said relationship, and dudes don't want to have relationships with suicidal women, they want to fuck them.

I've had women approach me the way it happens in 500 Days of Summer - as a friend with zero romantic interest in me.
It sucks.

women can be so cruel

That's the thing, there's no cruelty in it. They just don't view you as a romantic interest and assume you understand this.

mindless cruelty is just that much worse

Honestly, I only pay for shit that has multiplayer if people want to watch it. Everything else I pirate but I don't tell the viewers kek
You'd have to be painfully tech illiterate to have a slip up like that. You don't need a high tech PC to stream, unless of course you're trying to stream modern day shit at max settings. I would highly recommend a second monitor for streaming though. Go in with the intention of just enjoying your game with some randos, if you go in expecting money it'll just sour the hobby (at least that's what happened to me).

Thinking you should get in relationships only when you feel at your best is how you end up like pic related.

Stop waiting and engage with women NOW regardless of your situation. In fact you should've regularly engaged with women the moment you hit puberty, not waiting until you're "happy and loving yourself" because that's how you die forever le improooving as a kissless virgin

Honestly, I only pay for shit that has multiplayer if people want to watch it. Everything else I pirate but I don't tell the viewers kek

That's fine, I'd do that too if I the multiplayer gayms make me money.

Is this the failed normalfaggots giving out life advice thread?

NTA but I approached a lot of women but I just got rejected by all of them

failed normalfaggotry is the new normalfaggotry

Thinking you should get in relationships only when you feel at your best is how you end up like pic related.

thinking you're entitled to another persons time/energy/feelings just for existing without putting in any work on being a desirable person is how you get school shooters

how short and/or ugly are you

you're talking like a school shooter weaponizing language like that. who describes a relationship as being "entitled to someones time and feelings". that's like shit an alien would write you ain't human bro

I am unable to LOOK at an unfamiliar woman. I subconsciously keep her out of my field of vision constantly. It's like a superpower

Yeah I did shit like that when I was a virgin. Like you have to maintain constant awareness of where she is so you don't accidentally make eye contact. It's a fucked up fear response that puts you at a constant level of stress when you're doing nothing wrong, which makes it more likely you'll do something weird. But when you realize what kind of dudes a lot of women date, it's easy to find confidence in yourself. Which is just comfort in living in the world as yourself, knowing that you're not a bad person and that you're entitled to simply exist among other people.

Tall but ugly in the eyes of women given how they often recoil when I talk or even look at them

so if a man meets 5 slim attractive women he will fall in love with every single one of them?

can confirm

This was literally me all through my 20s. Don't be like me anons

boomers didn't need to "work on being a desirable person". most people in 3rd world don't need it either. it all comes down to expectations and availability.

To be fair, this looks like a staged photo in a family pool. Not gonna see much fucking here.
Also there's a white guy and girl cuddling in the background as well as a white family by the ladder.
Lets not forget the lone black guy with the camera.
Not the best BBC bait I must admit. Israel must have a skeleton crew working today.

thinking you're entitled to another persons time/energy/feelings

Who said that? No one is entitled to anything.

That doesn't mean it's illegal to try to get to know a girl. An awkward teenager shouldn't have to wait for more than a decade until he starts interacting with girls.

You can order a jeet to your house and eat him

Based? Granted he'd be rather dirty.

Your height is a cheat code as long as you're not deformed tier, women will fuck you when your size and frame gives their lizard brain the pussy tingles. It's like big boobs on a girl reducing male IQ by 50 points.

I wish someone told me this when i was a spergy wallflower 15yo guy who thought "i need to get jacked, learn guitar, fix all my acne, etc etc and then i will go and get a girlfriend". I was sold the "improve yourself into the best version of yourself before approaching women" scam. Now i am in my mid 20s and an incel. At least i am jacked and can play guitar pretty well.

Did your mom beat and/or berate you a lot or something?

who tf gave you this dogshit advice? I was 16 when I lost my virginity at some party and it never occurred to me for a second. I just saw a pretty girl and we had some beers. I'm not a boomer either.

Somebody fucked you up, what an asshole.

Kek

Nothing wrong with this, except he should lift at lunch instead of running
I hope he finds a girl who loves him

Kind of, except I’m 41, and I’ve developed enough of an emotional callus at this stage in life that I don’t even really care all that much. Like if I had a chick in my life at this point, I wouldn't even know what to do with it.

For an example, a few years back, there was a girl I knew from work, and a bunch of people from work got together and had a party, and I don’t know what energy I tapped into that night, because I have zero game, but I must have accidentally really turned on the charm that night, and said all the right things through no conscious power of my own, because she would not leave me alone after that. She was cute, and a sweet girl, but I just found the whole thing kind of annoying.

greatest Anon Babble thread of all time

Like if I had a chick in my life at this point, I wouldn't even know what to do with it.

I'm younger than you (24) but I still feel this way. When you've been independent your whole life and done everything alone, you have no idea how you're supposed to act if another person was to get introduced into your life

That doesn't mean it's illegal to try to get to know a girl

then why do cops show up when we try

But in France, I think the man is not obligated to recognise the child, he can just ignore it and not pay a dime.

Hand cashiers large notes and when you get changed open your hand. Sometimes they touch it inadvertently. I haven't had contact for longer

Lack of social media usage

makes a video about his typical day

Who do you think that video is for, and where does he post it?

That's one of the best things about relationships though. It literally teaches you to be normal.

who tf gave you this dogshit advice?

pretty much everyone.

just be a good boy with good grades and a good job and the girls will naturally come along the way, don't worry it will happen!

now almost 30 and never even kissed

at least I have an above average salary am i rite h-haha

vibes are undefeated

I dislike the term NPC, but this guy right here.

tfw you touch a female cashier's hand when she's giving you your change and you realize how soft women are

even though it's only for a split second it feels so nice. i can only imagine how it must feel holding your gf's hand when you walk somewhere together

Brutal. I feel for you. My sister and mother tried to fill my head with that shit. I'm glad I had my circle of guy friends to push me away from it.

you are satan

someone who has to verbally spell out 'actually i'm happy' is not happy at all

you mean like your open wound?

now lets look at the sexual relations of his older sisters

post panel? I'm so curious about their sexual relations

just be a good boy with good grades and a good job and the girls will naturally come along the way, don't worry it will happen!

that doesn't mean do nothing and it will just happen, you have to try just a little bit.

now almost 30 and never even kissed

bro just look for escorts in your area at this point and get it over with

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is that a virus link?

bro just look for escorts in your area at this point and get it over with

NTA but how do people get started with this and find a reliable, safe chick? I haven't had sex in a decade at this point, I'm not sure if my dick even works anymore.

Hitomi has always been reliable for me, recently it's started getting shit popups. I use it because fakku seems to ignore it, so stuff stays up.

popups :/ those scare me i got ransom wared from a popup 13 years ago

You described me down to the avoiding looking at women's asses part

I just go to the gym to look at fit milfs lmao, there's barely any young chicks.

If prostitutes are my only option I'd honestly rather die a virgin

I just walk dogs because I'm really stupid and failed school, problem is i'm 30 now and in all my years trying to make this career work I never broke out of the below min wage barrier. I'm close to giving up but I wouldn't mind getting re-educated again as I have some inheritance money I could invest in studies

But where do you even go to think about what you want to be, how do you even know if you're capable of doing a job? I have no idea what my options are or if I even have options.

It's your survival instinct trying to save you from crossing the line, you won't get anywhere until you actually go through with it when it gets serious. Trust me, I know, when I suggested going to my place to bang for the first time every single wrinkle in my brain was yelling at me to stop and my heart rate tripled. It took IMMENSE force to utter the words in the first place, but holy fuck was it worth it, felt invincible the entire week afterwards.
I was 28 btw.

this idea of having a career or a line of work is new fangled brother just work whatever job pays that's how 99% of people do it don't fall for the tiktok memes

prostitutes are junkies just looking for quick cash to get high.
escorts are companionship.
don't get a streetwalker, get an actual $300+ escort

how do you even know if you're capable of doing a job

same like with anything, you keep trying until something sticks

well what stuck for you?

jacking guys off for 10 dollars under a bridge

Still would rather die a virgin if that's my only option

how do you even know if you're capable of doing a job

meet some kind of minimum requirements for an interview or just know someone and ask for a job where they have an opening.
as long as it's not too high skill you'll get training on the job anywhere you go for the first day or however long it takes, not like they just throw you in the deep end day 1 and fire you on day 2 if you aren't performing.

solving Captchas and arguing with cartoon frog posting autists online

Becoming a janitor on Anon Babble. You wouldn't believe the pay

lets just say, its alot of 0's :)

it starts with F and ends in E

tfw you grew up in a family where you got teased for hanging out around girls and relationships were sort of a taboo so you never felt like you could show interest towards girls

I don't know if it's possible to undo this damage desu

Dostoyevsky is pretty good if don't take it too seriously. Notes from the underground is very funny

You sound like you got bullied in school and it's causing you to be so self aware of your surroundings.

This is true, Dostoyevsky can be very entertaining. Trying to bump into the guy who walk over him at pool hall and shit, that was good stuff.

This is true in my experience as a man

second child

bro just married last year therefore I'm free from being asked about gfs and kids

Holy cope..

my father thought that teasing me constantly about every single girl I was in the same room as was the correct way to push me into chasing girls, because that's how it was with his football bros when he was young. it had the exact opposite effect of paralyzing me because I thought that my parents would somehow mock me more for my dating errors than my actual classmates.

I used to be like this. The sad thing is, as a man if you're easy to love women don't want you, but become difficult to love and jaded and they start paying attention. It's like they refuse to have nice lives. Everything must be difficult and miserable.

Where the fuck does one even meet women? As in meet meet, not see and can’t talk to them because you have nothing about. Tried bitches at the uni, they’re either taken or don’t bite

but become difficult to love and jaded and they start paying attention

most forever alone adult virgins ITT are difficult to love and jaded. no one pays any attention whatsoever

I loved this movie and eventually fell in love with a woman like Clementine. I had to let her go and will always regret it.

It sounds extremely scummy but you need at least ONE guy friend that has success with women and tag along with him when he goes to some kind of a hangout, there are gonna be at least 2-3 chicks every time and at least one might get interersted in you.

This is sage advice. I've gotten laid plenty of times just because my best bud is a charismatic chad.

Another couple of pieces of advice:
Wear a wedding ring. Holy fuck this trick got me 1000x more interest.

Also look for social situations were women will be drinking. They don't have to be sloppy drunk but alcohol will lower their bitch force field enough you can shoot your shot.

Good luck fellas and always remember bitches ain't shit. YOU'RE THE PRIZE, not them.

To be visible to women and people in general you gotta be willing to put yourself out there knowing that it might lead to nothing, it's very scary and I get that but the first reason why loneliness persists is because we always convince ourselves that it's the safest and therefore the best option.

Women don't speak to me. They just glance a lot.

I think one of the worst things in modern society is the lack of smile. Holy shit people, men, women, they all need to smile more. Life's already bullshit enough that we're adding up by looking miserable.

he didn't even type anything.

I hate these fag office workers who literally do nothing.

I saw a black nigger woman on tiktok showing the day in the life of being a game designer. She did nothing but eat and sit down and then pretended to type on a computer. I commented DEI hire, you don't do any developing and she seethed.

the sad reality is that I got more glances when I was physically weirder. now that I'm more average I feel much more ignored.

seeing randos smiling is offputting I get joker vibes from that freak shit just have a neutral expression you freak

as a teenager yes, now its obvious women dont deserve love or attention

There's a difference between smiling and the joker grin.

I agree. Everyone looks fucking miserable all the time and what's even worse is they get angrier if you act polite and happy! Miserable cunts.

there isn't when there's nothing to smile about there's a reason monkey's see bared teeth as a threat it's instinctually an uncool thing to see randos doing

This is because the new generation is deathly afraid of being cringe, even if it's just about a damn smile. Send a slightly awkward intimate text to a girl? The girls are all already laughing at the screenshot in the girl group chat. Do an awkward thing IRL? Already being laughed at on tiktok/instagram by thousands. Yes all of this is irrational, but it is a real fear for many which is why they avoid any possibility of cringe at all times. Not to mention the entire MeToo cancel narrative.

Just some one of the reasons why zoomers are so highly risk averse and afraid of doing anything even just showing emotions so they remain flatline at all times

Your posts are a fascinating look into the mind of niggerness. Please, continue.

you're the nigger for grinning your big "teef" everywhere thinking you're making the world a better place

You literally compared yourself to a monkey earlier. Lmao. Calm down Tyrone before you wake up your grandma.

you're tiresome as fuck

Yeah, but then how can you look like a normal adjusted person when you've found the right chick? And not an insecure inexperienced loser?

Now you know how we all feel about your grumpy bitch attitude and perpetual scowl.

I'm 47 and feel the same way. I don't think I want anything to do with women at all. Now that I'm old enough to not be thinking with my dick I realise that I think most women are some combination of boring/dumb/ignorant/arrogant/self-absorbed/pointlessly argumentative/generally unpleasant to be around.

if you're not cheesing like a fucking freak then you're frowning

such a big fucking ego you think you're in a movie someone needs to hit you

who shows me the least bit of attention

Every post definitely proving my original niggerness assumptions correct

i can only imagine how it must feel holding your gf's hand when you walk somewhere together

It's really nice anon, especially on a cold day and you aren't wearing gloves but she is. Women always buy really soft fuzzy gloves so not only do you get the nice feeling of holding her hand you also get the feeling of her hand keeping yours warm.

good meme little npc jack rabbit

No, thats his per kilometer average.
He runs a 7mins and 23 seconds mile.l or 4mins 35 per kil. 1 kilo is approx 60% of a mile

Watching in front of a screen is not a real work and I'm tired to pretend that is.

What do you propose as an alternative, ESL faggot?

This is because the new generation is deathly afraid of being cringe,

This is a sad existence and I say this as a 33yo who had self esteem issues and was always alert trying to avoid any humiliating or cringe situation that might warrant more bullying, ever since middle school cause I was always the new kid in school thanks to my parents moving around like 3 times in 4 years.
Just now I'm starting to get out of that mindset after much work and help from others and I can't imagine growing up like I did plus the possibility of that being recorded for posterity like kids nowadays have to go through, poor fuckers.

nobody is watching videos of random fucking teenagers from years ago online bro it's not a big fucking deal you sound like such a fucking boomer lol