Past a certain age...

suicide. NOW.

one-itis.

This started in 2017 actually. I think college just turned her into a jaded whore

If that experience doesn't blackpill you and convince you of why women were property for thousands of years, you are truly hopeless.

If you have a genuine way to reach out and contact her, just do it. Don't be a pussy and spend the rest of your life just getting glances of who she becomes. As that first anon, it eats up a lot of space in your brain playing questions of "what if?" even if it doesn't particularly hurt. On top of that, with a two year window you're totally allowed to reach out to a girl and say, "Hey, I don't know if you're free or whatever but I always wanted to ask you out the timing just never seemed right especially when high school got busy. Do you want to go see a movie or grab some food with me sometime?" If she's really not involved with someone or maybe not even that popular you absolutely might have a chance.

You sound way too young to start wondering if you're hopeless. Just give it a shot young buck, if nothing works out between you two this godforsaken dogshit board will still be here when you come back.

Sit next to a girl in class when I'm 16, I'm literally stunned by her beauty, as in it takes me several seconds to respond to her greeting

That second I finally knew what all the moaning about love in songs and movies meant, holy fuck I want to be with her so bad.

Too big of a pussy to do anything ofc, but we have the same friends so we keep a good connection going through the years after HS

Years go by, at 24 we are still both single, finally build up the courage to pm her and start texting... We schedule a date, I'm the happiest man in the world... Finally, after years of playing the long game I'm getting my (deserved) HS oneitis.

Date night, it fucking sucks, while we have good chemistry in our friend group its much harder to hide our differences and mutual akwardness when it's just the two of us. Obviously there is no second date and secretly I'm glad about it, I finally realise its not meant to be and it never was.

Within two months after that i had lost my virginity (to one of her friends lol) sometimes to move forward you got to let go first.

Thanks for reading my blog

The MSN mention in my boring ass nobody asked life story should have been a tip off.

forgot to mention she blocked me on socials because apparently you can see who views your stories and highlights now. also that way on all major social media now. so i think the door is pretty closed on that. i now use third party instagram viewing sites to get my fix.

Have you got it, young nigga? Or do you need for me to explain it further. There is no shame in asking for help.

Onetis basically means you have the one itis like a disease that tricks you into thinking a certain person is meant to be your "the one" so you can't move on/it breaks you if you can't be with them in a romantic relationship. It's genuinely sad shit

one person you obsess over?

had a few crushes during high school

never talked to any of them

had a few crushes during first 2 years of college

never talked to any of them

gone over a decade since college being fully blackpilled on my ugliness

recently developed a huge crush on a semi famous person

Ah, that is a much different story bro. Sounds like you're probably out of luck with this girl. You could still try messaging her on a new account and just explain your apprehension and how you still think about her etc etc, but if she's not into it you should probably just move on.

Don't give yourself oneitis off a girl who you have some idea was probably not going to give you the go ahead flag. Oneitis is for those bullshit delusions where a girl wavered and was maybe too kind or too permissive to the point where you never could figure out if she was interested or not and so you start self-loathing over your inaction.

i didn't message her once or send her anything at all. just viewed her stories. just looking at her face made me feel better in my miserable life. but it seems she either thought i was some bot or knew it was me and found it creepy. my life is such a dead-end i might just message her to let her know i had no creepy intentions, like you said. one final hail mary. maybe, just maybe, she gives me a chance because, as i said, she's not some Stacy. Just an average 6/10 girl (at best). i am making that new account right now. wish me luck!

Yes.

>recently developed a huge crush on a semi famous person

-itis is a common ending to diseases. And people refer to their obsessive crush as "the one for them" or just "The one". It's a delusional kind of thinking. Much like obsessing over high school in the first place. My life didn't really start until college.

don't listen to this idiot, if all she ever did was say you had a cool shirt and then she caught you stalking her on social media you're fucked and trying to reach out to her now would just be trouble

Joke's on you, I asked her out and got rejected. This was in the fall of 2008 and I still shiver when the leaves begin to turn red

i got a bad case of Bjork stalker when i became obsessed with this Cailee Spaeny girl long before anyone else was (say 2017) and then i found out her boyfriend is some zesty jogger. i composed myself and didn't mail her a bomb.

Same, but seeing her nude posted on Anon Babble knowing that countless unworthy were seeing her in all of her glory and eye-raping her actually helped me. Now I don't check her MySpace or Xanga anymore. I don't even watch her anime and its spin-offs anymore either. I think I'm basically cured at this point.

To be fair, if the girl is as mediocre (and presumably desperate) he might have a chance. Plus, as he said, she might've thought he was a bot if he didn't have his name or face on the account. Why not give it a shot? What does he have to lose?

same except for the girl everyone calls "snood" and I found out she has 10 zesty jogger boyfriends rather than just 1

trying to reach out to her now would just be trouble

What's she going to do? Go to the cops because someone she knows and blocked once for not interacting with her decided to try interacting with her? You're such a fucking defeatist fucking loser. Of course you're on Anon Babble

Quite the contrary, I will never give up hope

friendly reminder that even "ugly" men can become attractive if they're willing to put in the work

35 years old living in Britain

ugly charismaless meek beta male

boring but overpaid work from home office job

never had a gf or any female attention ever

no friends or social experiences since school

went to university and was a total loser that talked to no one, which was a soul crushing experience

become the ugly loser nobody talks to within one day of all the part time and full time jobs I've ever had, end up eating lunch alone

people repulsed by my presence

read about incel blackpill over 10 years ago and it explained everything

lived for some years in London, nothing changed

What hope is there for ever getting a girlfriend or anything social at all? Online dating is impossible to succeed at if you're not a Chad. Going to hobby groups or whatever just to transparently try to get a gf is cringe as fuck.

In no context since the age of 18 has anyone expressed the slightest desire to associate with me in any way.

>never talk to any of them

Why not you retard? You don’t know what could’ve happened.

living in Britain

There is no hope for you. Either leave that hell on earth or be content with your misery.

If you're under 30 on Anon Babble and worried about girls, just fucking get over it. Try and get laid, this board is not fun. When I started using it was fun. People made so many exciting memes and would literally create season tv rating cards and would organize generals and offboard content. Slowly it's become spam and dogshit opinions and blatant shilling.

Just go try and get laid little zoomies. If you're fat, if you're ugly, if you're a maladjusted little schizo, just give it a shot. You're missing nothing sticking around this board, there is nothing fun on Anon Babble anymore. Nothing more fun than getting to know other humans. Maybe they'll want to watch precious kino with you and are just waiting to be asked.

Just don't stick around here and feel bad for yourself my lil niggas. You can do that after you get some real world experience

Going to hobby groups or whatever just to transparently try to get a gf is cringe as fuck.

this is why you go there because you actually enjoy the hobby.
people will respond if you do something out of a genuine interest, and you might make some friendships or maybe even a relationship in the process.

I used to be like this but I don’t care enough about other people for that kind of energy. I started getting way hotter/more girls when I stopped caring. Eventually you realize everyone is a person and they’re… fine.
I’m 24 and only started changing when I was 22

Also, if you're over 30- don't worry about it. I'm not saying you're hopeless either. You just have more real world knowledge and are starting to know what real failure feels like. But don't give up my dudes

Giving up is fucking gay and loser shit

Alitaposting was the last gasp of real Anon Babble. people just up and left, it seems. post 2020 it's just tourists and underage retard losers.

i confessed to my crush in the last year of junior high and she responded by literally bursting out laughing and running to tell her friends so they could also come laugh at me. that one incident led to me second-guessing myself every time i felt any kind of connection with a woman for the next like 15 years.

then around the time i turned 30 i realized it doesn't matter and that one moment of rejection doesn't mean i'm unworthy of love or can't ever express feelings of affection again so i basically started hitting on every woman that showed even the slightest bit of interest. i have a gf now

What a fucking embarassing post. Please commit suicide as soon as possible.

fucking keyed

All this thread and the stories posted in it proves to me is that women are demons on earth and that we should genocide them.

What a gay opinion. If you're going down that route you should just get a boyfriend and let him have sex with you instead of being a real man and find a woman to make your life better.

Kissass pieces of shit like you why are women have all the social power and why men suffer. Please commit suicide for the harm you do to fellow men by perpetuating this insane system. Please.

12 fucking years

did y

End your life.

Nice posts faggot

I'm, 26 years old and a virgin.

The real faggot is you, devoting your entire life to a piece of mediocre ass because you're a worthless NPC that lives for nothing else but to stick your dick in a hole. END. YOUR. LIFE.

This was me, I'm such a fucking failure at life at 30 that I missed out in high school love and doing dumb shit like drinking and smoking weed with people my age.

Now I just met a girl at work who is 18 who is into me, we've made out and snuck out at night to hang til like 2am but now she is cold shouldering mme out of nowhere and talking to really ugly looking fags and laughing hysterically right in front of me with them and I feel like shit about it

in college

late to class one day

only seat open is next to this short cute girl I've been checking out

she's 5'4, blonde with pale skin and green eyes, petite and perky

sit next to her

she drops her pen and it rolls down the floor

get up and get it for her

hand it back with a smile

eye contact lingers, she smiles back and then looks down meekly

realize she's quite shy because I've never seen her talk to anyone

we just sit quietly during class and when class ends, we leave without interacting

next class, I sit in my usual spot

she comes to sit next to me despite tons of open seats

don't say anything or even make eye contact

we do this for nearly half the semester, I look forward to it every time

never say anything but feel like ONE DAY I will finally say "hi" and we will start talking

decide to skip class once and go home early

get on the bus in front of campus - there is nobody else on it

go all the way to the back and sit down as the bus idles

see her get on

we make eye contact for 0.05 seconds and then I look away quickly

she comes all the way to the back and sits RIGHT across from me without a word

bus starts moving - we're basically the only 2 passengers

I stare out the window with my mind racing

she is forcing my hand, there is no way I can't talk to her now

a couple minutes go by which felt like hours, is it too late?

bus goes under an overpass and we make eye contact through the window reflection

I quickly look down and then back out the window when the light is back

realize it's too late

feel my heart sinking as I realize I'm living through a moment I will regret for the rest of my life

brain is screaming NOOO SAY SOMETHING FAGGOT!!!!!!!

can't do it

my stop comes

fumble out of the seat awkwardly staring every direction but hers

after this, she never sat near me or looked in my direction ever again
this was 12 years ago

snuck out

Nigga are 12?

he lives with his parents

Girls likes me first

asks for my numbers or socials

starts messaging me nonstop within days and weeks

I never ask them to hang out or tell them I like them

months pass and they lose interest

they go to another dude who is ugly as fucking shit

This has been happening to me since I was like 10, I'm 27 now. I've never told a girl I liked them, always feels like i know they are going to say they dont like me back so what's the point, but then why do they always approach me first

oooof

I had sex this weekend

That's horrible.

Ruined my mood.

I can sort of relate to the stories in this thread, but not entirely because while plenty of times I've wasted opportunities, I've always been afraid enough of regret that if I really wanted to talk to a girl, I would do it.

I will say this though: it is easier to regret an individual mistake than it is to regret wasting your entire life. Hate yourself for something you once did and still take life for granted.

had a serious crush on a girl that was in many of my first term college classes (you choose the major at the start of the degree in my country)

accidentally made eye contact a few times

obsess about her

have a smaller class on a dark and cold evening

fire alarm sounds and class goes outside

it's snowing

class instructor says we should go to a nearby building to wait in the lobby until we can go back in

standing alone

realise she is right next to me and not talking to anyone

spend the next 10 minutes reading and pretending to read a noticeboard with fire safety information

never talk to her ever

Rejoice for all your suffering will be gone with death

I've always been afraid enough of regret

That entire thing of "regret of not trying hurts more than trying" does not work for me, at least for my near 3 decades of life.

I am only becoming more and more content with the fact that I will more than likely die as a lone kissless virgin, not motivated to change my situation or do something about it except write a whine post like this here and there.
In fact I wish regret of inaction would hurt more because then I'd be motivated to stop being a passive timid life observer still living in my childhood room avoiding anything and everything around me. But clearly regret doesn't hurt more, so I remain in this non life state

You should not share this

Broke up with my first girlfriend the other day. She had a baby daughter and I really don't like kids.

The hell was I thinking? Fuck that shit.

fucking hell

based limerence loving frog poster. I too mope about my ex gf from two years ago.

This was in 2023 and I’m still burnt by it.

2 years

This kinda shit will haunt you for the next 10-15 years

You've got it easy. I watched a girl that I was talking to for months before the final day of school slip out of my hands. It was a rainy day. She headed the other way to catch her bus. She expected me to ask if I can come over to her house. I didn't. Mind lapsed or I got shy, don't know. I watched her walk away into the rain and never saw her again after that. I attempted suicide a few years later and then I remembered that and pressed the rope harder but it snapped. after that, i kept on because i got so close to death and it was scary.

why would you be with someone for 6 years and not put a baby inside them? No wonder she got cold feet

at least he wasn't black (right?)

sneed

Same thing with me about a month ago. When the lust wore off, I was like what the fuck am I doing.

God damned. For once I'd like to read a greentext with a happy ending.

all these anons ITT usually at least had some sort of a crush, or a girl they liked or maybe got sort of close to but never had the balls to actually ask her out or make a move

tfw I've never even had that

i've never even had a talking stage or had a girl's contact info in my phone. honestly I can't think of the last time i even had a conversation with a woman who wasn't a coworker or family member

maybe you're asexual dude. usually by the time you hit like 25 you've had to interact with women enough by necessity to know if you're interested in at least one of them enough to motivate action. if you've dealt with women you thought were attractive but still never felt like any of them were worth even superficial investment of energy, you might just be asexual instead of someone who fumbles romance

MY BLOOD RUNS COLD
MY MEMORY HAS JUST BEEN SOLD

Women are sexist, they expect you to tell them.

yup, literally me

There's no such thing as asexual. Show me a guy who has never masturbated in his life. To a fantasy. If you have testosterone or sperm, you're sexual, come on now.

Same, I never had a crush nor have I ever fallen in love and I'm 29 years old.
I mean I see beautiful girls and I recognize them as beautiful and would like to be intimate with them, but never ever did I go home and continue thinking about anyone really, except for maybe my close family members when they need help or something like that. Never understood the "oneitis" meme since I never experienced it. High school, college or now at work, all the same.

Are we broken? Does "falling in love" just happen or should we actually try to actively do something for that to happen? I just go through life, but this entire part has missed me entirely.
NTA but definitely not asexual. I'd definitely like to be intimate with a girl, just not enough to actively pursue it

since this is the whiny loser thread, anyone else planning to go to some cheap country and fuck whores before ending your life?

They trick you into thinking “they’re the one”. You think

she’s unique

what could have been

And they abuse the pairbonding mechanism in men.
It doesn’t work in men who fry their pairbonding mechanism through frequent sex or serial monogamy.
But it works on most men and works on all men if they have low quality mothers or low quality women filling maternal roles (e.g. your third grade teacher is a maternal element in your life).

You have to break the conditioning. It’s not real. It is literally not real.
There is no universal “one”.
The true “one” is whoever you marry.

But these girls you think about. They aren’t real. You have built up a fabrication from the moment you interacted with her to now. It is not real. It is a more sinister form of VR.
We have always known this on some level but it has been turned into a children’s fantasy

The only way to break the spell is with true love’s kiss.

It’s true.
Pursue another girl, chase another girl, when she is affectionate towards you watch how quickly the old enchantment is shattered and a new one forms with the girl you chase or is chasing you.

She’s a career type and was holding off on kids until later

They expect it but they will always reject you

If prostitutes are my only option I'd honestly rather die a virgin.

Also I will never ever kill myself

didn’t impregnate

This is why you lost her.
Unironically. Women can largely fix their pairbonding with pregnancy. But you didn’t give her a baby.

Incel science. She would’ve went straight to the abortion clinic.

how old was she when you started dating?

It is both freeing and depressing to realize Love is a powerful emotion but ultimately not real. It makes one question if the religious and parental waxing about love is just nonsense.
Which is rather harrowing to imagine God might become disenchanted with mankind.

STOP READING MY MIND!!!!

What's dating a woman like, really? How nice is the emotional support and companionship?

I fucked a hooker to find out what sex feels like and it was the biggest nothingburger.

Itis is a Greek suffix meaning infection. It is saying you are infected by a person. It is as disgusting, damaging, and repulsive as it sounds. To be “infected” by a woman.

She was 15 and I was 17

and didn't ask her out leading to lifelong regret

nah. I asked her out and got rejected
which is worse?

that's fair then, if she was pushing 30 without a child then i'd bet that would have been one of the reasons why she left you

at least getting rejected you cacn be pissed at her or something and move on instead of deluding yourself that maybe she liked you too

All good bro

Ask her out. Don’t say or do anything else. Just ask her out.
Just “hey let’s hang out, free next week?”
If she’s not free. Trust me she isn’t interested and then you can go back to incelling.
This is the only way. Believe me. I have walked this path more than once.

If she is open she will make time. Women will get fired from their jobs to make time for men. If she has something going on you’re not important enough.
Women are retarded. Factor that in.
If she says anything but yes she’s not interested.

maybe you're asexual dude.

I'm not asexual, I'm just too picky desu.

My criteria for women is

at least a few shared interests we can bond over

decent looking

and obviously

single

The problem is, I haven't met any woman who's all three.
If we share interests and she's single, she's not attractive.
If we share interests and she's decent looking, she's taken.
If she's decent looking and single, we have nothing in common.

I think it's like a sexual obsession. Like an onahole. Something that consumes your mind. An addiction. But all the other explanations were fine too.

Lower your standards and date your looksmatch or 1-2 points below if she fits other criteria like good personality, smart, can cook.

How nice is the emotional support and companionship?

I just read a woman's Facebook post about her 10th wedding anniversary or something. She was like, "the newness and spark is gone but he was the only one to love me."

The best part of a relationship is the first three months when you're both fucking each other like rabbits. I imagine everything starts to fade away after about a year, especially if you're changing diapers and working full-time.

lower your standards

that's the thing, I'm not saying I want to date someone who looks like an instagram model, just a 6 or 7/10 who has a personality and hobbies. is that too much to ask for?

Chad makes eye contact with a girl

Girl: Oh... Is there something in my hair? When will he talk to me? Thank God I wore a tampon!

You make eye contact

Girl:*Gets whiplash by looking away so quickly* Oh my Gawd, what a creeep! Are those his... his... sex eyes?!!!! That's it, I'm not coming here alone again!

Chad asks out a girl

Girl: Why do I feel so tingly down there! Oh my Gawd, I need to buy a new dress! Why did I rush my make up this morning!

Chad asks a girl for directions

Girl: Yeah, it's down there. The garden is so nice and the coffee they serve is the best in the city. Are you here for the day? I've always wanted to go there and...

After literal years of browsing redpill content, being blackpilled, wasting your youth, getting fit, reading about how to talk to women, you finally talk to one, giving her a friendly greeting and asking how she is

You: Hi, are you from around here?

Girl pauses for a split second and then realised you're trying to flirt with her. She screams like a wild banshee, as if she's learnt her family has died in a car accident. Bystanders start to surround both of you. You're bundled over and in a jail cell. After months, you go to court and the girl gives testimony in the court room, live but anonymously behind a screen so she can't come in to contact with her abuser (you). Before the cross examination, the judge orders everyone out of the court room except you and the cameraman (this just happens to be one of the first criminal cases to be televised in the UK)

Judge: I have dismissed the jury after having directed them to give a guilty verdict. In all of my decades of legal work, I have never come in to contact with a more remorseless serial abuser than yourself. I hereby sentence you to the harshest punishment for this crime. A fully internet archived copy of the incident will be kept on Encyclopedia Dramatica and you will be known as the "loser beta male dot gif" meme forever after.

My big titty ex from 5 years ago is married and has a kid now. Cant believe i didn't get to see those swollen pregnant milkers. She wasnt fat at all. Track and field body with perky EE tits with big light pink nips. I will never get over here.

eh, this post maybe could've passed back in 2016 in no singles policy cinema threads. also too much crammed text for a greentext

don't ask your female coworkers, you'll get set to HR for harassment

don't approach women in public, they want to be left alone

don't approach women at bars or clubs, they just want to drink and have fun with their friends

don't ask our your female friends, they just want to be friends and you'll ruin the friendship

don't use dating apps, they don't work unless you're a 6'5 chad

any other suggestions?

Are you a 6 or 7? What's wrong with a 4 or 5, aka the average woman?

Do the opposite of all that. You will get rejected a lot but also hacve sex

old enchantment is shattered and a new one forms with the girl you chase or is chasing you

hey dipshit, PAIR BONDING is a thing for both men and women and each time you do this the effect becomes weaker and weaker

meet girls at church

You're supposed to meet them through mutual social groups and gatherings, or have a female friend vouch for you to one of her single friends, but you're an antisocial freak who doesn't hang out with anyone IRL.

I didn't asker her out after a year of knowing each other

She got with someone else

I confessed while they were together

After a year with him she broke it off

Came back and started hanging out with me

I asked her again after some time

She said we could work on it

After a week she wrote me a letter saying "we should just stay friends atm, too soon from her last relationship"

I told her I never wanted to speak to her again

We still follow each other on Insta, though she muted my posts and stories and I muted hers

4 years later she's dating a short asian fat guy, and I'm dating a girl whose name is one letter off from hers. Fuck my stupid chud life.

an antisocial freak

what if Im a nigger that grew up in China, it wouldnt be my fault the dicklets hate me and dont talk to me

I have a middle school itis. I asked this girl to a school dance and she said yeah, but when i tried to buy her ticket for her like a chad she said it was too much and cancelled it. Then she started dating this goofy looking beaner afterwards. She was a stupid white bitch, but she had a fat ass so I always think about missing out on nice middle school ass cheeks.

kill yourself

You should finish what you started anon

why would I do that if I'm not religious

The issue is that online is the norm now.

All third places rapidly dying, everyone being terminally online on their phones even boomers let alone anyone younger.

That's not love though you fucking stupid retarded incel. That's just a crush. You cannot possibly feel love over someone you don't know and haven't spent time with. Shut your ass up and try harder but please don't pretend to know anything about human emotion besides seething.

Getting hung up on this shit is fucking weird bros, unless you guys are like 19 or 20 or some shit. Straight up serial killer vibes and it really gives the fucking ick, get a hold of yourselves.

Though I will say I do have one regret from not dating a girl in hs, she was super cute and had cerebral palsy and we flirted a lot and I liked her but I was embarassed to ask her out because of her disability. I didn't have the self esteem to date a cripple, even though she was cute as fuck and super sweet. I lost contact once we graduated until like 5 years later when I found out she died from complications from the disease. Shit still floors me to think about to this day, even though I'm 36 now.

you can't see who views your highlights after a week boomer anon, stalking is still much possible

Message her, you faggot. You have nothing to lose.
You're putting her up on a pedestal, once you talk to her you'll realize she's unlike the muse you imagined her to be.

was constantly chatting up girls on Tinder

after about 50 matches finally find a girl with a perfect personality fit

talk non-stop for two weeks

drive to her town to meet her

the first thing she says after seeing me in real life is "so short.."

date goes ok but I miss several cues from her since I'm autistic

shoots me down via text afterwards and tells me she'd just like to be friends

drop all contact with her

that was 7 years ago and I have not chased a single girl since then

Unironically fuck dem hoes bro, online dating is disgusting. I once got called short too and I'm 5'11 aka king of the manlets, she was like 5'2. She was being genuine too it was very surreal.

go to the gym and do a sport. There's a 10/10 who dates a short rugby player I know, whose got eyes like sid the sloth

Learn to dance. Go to ball room dancing classes. Im more than a decade off from being 35 but I can imagine a lot of single women might go to those

I did ask her out, via sms, she was cold, not interested, said she's always busy, told me she's got a crush on a jock, we talked for a bit, she told me to call her, I didnt and she spent a few years staring at me pissed off. Sometimes I remember this and laugh.

Yesterday I saw this girl affectionately hugging her husband, who couldn't have been more than 5'4, while he was holding a baby stroller in one hand.
You faggots won't make me fall for the blackpill, fuck you.

its over, pack it up. This guy won tonight's big loser

are you cold? Do you want my jacket?

Remember to smile and be chill about it, like its no big deal

the neurotypical pill is the hardest to swallow

you can be short, ugly, even broke, but you CANNOT be autistic or anxious

are you cold?

...not really

o-ok

cue more prolonged awkward silence

if she died 5 years after hs graduation she probably never got it and died a virgin, a cruel fate you allowed anon

Yeah I did this and didn’t even get a courtesy “fuck off pervert” rape accusation, but it did make me get over her

KWAB

That's why you share some shit you feel:

fuck I'm cold, I'm from ______ and we never get stuff like this.

OR

I never got used to snow and I've lived here all my life

Dr. Chud here, can you tell me more? do you see the oneitis in your dreams? What does she do?

Well yeah I can also now muster up a decent written situational response here as I wait 60 seconds and solve a Captcha before clicking Post

But IRL in the moment of it all happening my mind goes completely blank with my heart racing where just standing and breathing feels like a monumental task let alone actually opening my mouth and forming actual sentences.

Women dont make any sense, they hated and avoided me when I was a teen and then kept harassing me when I went to uni.
Honestly shocking how often they harass you when you hate them. And why do they always talk to my mom or aunt when I'm with my family, women are so fucking cringe.

They’re actually shitty people. The romantic childlike way of a caring loving mother you’re picturing in your head is absolutely not real. You only get that once- your mom.

I’m way too coddled by the dating apps, so I’ve never gotten with a girl “organically”, that is by meeting them through school, work, friends, party, outings, etc.
I don’t even know if any girls have ever been interested IRL. It just doesn’t register for me - completely mind-boggling that you’re supposed to risk humiliating yourself because a girl “looked at you a certain way”. I probably read as gay to people who know because the idea of flirting with a girl you’ve just met is completely foreign to me.
It’s something I’d like to experience at least just once.

But that’s probably all late millennials and zoomers, so not just me.

For most normies, it seems to be through friends, when different friend circles overlap at a party or when getting dinner. So you’re not risking a “close friendship” by dating them, but you still have an intimate setting in which to run into that person.
Most normal, well-adjusted have different friend groups (the one from work, the one from college, the one from your Sunday league, the one from when you did a pottery class), so it’s easier to get exposed to even more people through them.

who the fuck goes to pottery classes lmao

He’s joking but it’s the only way to even make friends now. I go to bars/restruants/classes by myself and can’t make any friends much less date. I used to have a bunch of friends but moved to a new city. I’m doing classes now so wish me luck, but I doubt it.

Best of luck.