every high school movie has THE mean popular girl that terrorizes everyone
meanwhile IRL, the most popular girl in HS is usually popular because she gets along with everyone
Was it like this too?
every high school movie has THE mean popular girl that terrorizes everyone
meanwhile IRL, the most popular girl in HS is usually popular because she gets along with everyone
Was it like this too?
the mean girl character is very rarely the most popular girl in school, including your example of dazed and confused
I actually can remember one instance of a cute popular girl talking to me of her own volition.
Thanks Kandis.
Unlikeable jews often create strawman of their old high school classmates.
I wouldn't know as I spent every break and lunch period hiding out at the back of the school or in the stairwell or in the library trying to avoid being seen or talked to by anyone. By my senior year, my history teacher made a big stink in front of the class because, "How has he not learned everybody's name by now?" when I was asked to hand back papers. I couldn't even tell you what most of the people I went to school with looked like while I was going.
Darla was clearly the alpha chick of that high school though, she even had underlings
when are you going to realize that Hollywood writers are just beta males who couldn't land the Stacy and were too awkward to get along with the jocks, so they project their self-hatred and anger onto well-adjusted people? And when are you going to realize that society actually went along with this nerdy Jew fantasies and completely unraveled our own civilization in an attempt to "correct" the "bad behavior" of completely normal and well-meaning people?
Thank God Hollywood is dying.
Death to the spiteful mutants.
mean girl in movies is a bitch who actually likes the beta nerd haha
mean girl in real life is actually nice
jock chad is a bully who hates the nerds
jock chads are actually nice dudes
Yeah, this. Faulty premise. Shit thread.
Yes yes the bullies are actually our righteous saviors looking to gently correct us and our autism, thank you benevolent ones.
your history teacher was correct.
being locked in a room 5 days a week for several years with people your own age and you never even bothered to learn their names is absolutely pathetic.
thats not even introvert shit, this is pure schizo behaviour and people should've called out for it sooner
LOL where the fuck did you go to school? Coolsville? Popular kids were definitely mean, maybe not to everyone but odd looking kids got shitted on for sure.
getting bullied occasionally for weird behaviour is unironically good for your character development. you need to experience backlash immediately from people if you show antisocial behavior, otherwise its only gonna get worse
It's it's self insert for the horrible shrew of a she writer.
As one of the popular kids I always made sure to step in and not let the others go too far.
r/television loves bullying, you'll never convince them that the halo wearing handsome and popular people were EVER mean to anyone who wasn't 'autistic' or 'weird' or deserved it.
Maybe stay there if you know them so well.
Yeah sure. No one ever got bullied for being short or needing to wears glasses.
Bulliying works in your favour if you're a normie or a chad.
If you're an uggo loser, it doesnt do anything but make your life worse and incentivize avoiding social situations.
In macro terms of natural selection, bullying is good in preventing things such as the plague of trannies we've seen in recent years. But the collateral damage it did should not be whitewashed. I think Millenials had it in the sweet spot where it wasnt too harsh on nerds but kept some freaks in check. Before and after was nightmare mode for a lot of people.
I'm doing this for your own good, stupid!
You think I want to you see turn into some stuttering anti-social loser, huh?!
Bulliying works in your favour if you're a normie
i.e. the majority of people
Jews hate white people so they portray them as having primitive social values and practices. They are on top of the social hierarchy which inspires envy, thus the jew must justify his hatred by implying that this is due to character faults such as being a bully or narcissist. The rest of the school lives in timid resentment/fear of these tyrants.
I don't think kids have such a understanding of the world yet. They usually are just imitating their parents in some way.
getting bullied occasionally for weird behaviour is unironically good for your character development.
No. Having your weird behavior shunned while also explaining why is unironically good for your character development.
You can't just hit a child and scream "look what you made me do" because the child repeatedly exhibits negative abnormal behavior. A good shepherd has both and uses both a rod and a staff; the rod for defense and discipline and the staff for guidance and safety.
All negative stereotypes about popular girls and jocks etc. in media, come from jealous (((nerds))) who never belonged. In reality, small town American communities reward and encourage the brightest most accomplished and kindest among the students. Our "mean popular girl" for example used to help out at the local elderly home every day after school, not just by reading books and playing checkers, but also by changing bed pans and feeding and sponge bathing them and stuff, and won the school two regional cheerleading titles. Our "mean bully jock" led our useless football team to victory against our nemesis rival school for the first time in a decade, was in rotc, and volunteered at the local tard center. Both of them were nice to everyone. Movies are lies.
I wish I was a popular girl no homo.
Obviously
creative writing assignments belong on reddit
would you be mean like Regina too?
You're missing the entire point. The bullies aren't actually muh "jocks and cheerleaders". Those are usually the more well-adjusted and sociable kids. The bullies are the weird kids who wear anarchy t-shirts and shoot up their schools. Eric and Dylan were the actual sociopathic bullies.
Oy vey the real bullies are the downtrodden losers who bother the chads and Stacie's by...existing!
downtrodden losers
this was Eric Harris' home btw
This is downstream of a bigger problem with the overwhelming majority of "writers". They do not represent reality, they stroke their own pathetic egos. The average writer is an ugly unlikable cunt/nerd. Very few other humans would be compelled to spend as much time writing because if they were attractive and pleasant to be around they would receive praise through other avenues. To say nothing of the effects of graphomania mental illness and narcissim.
Finding a woman writer who can represent reality in an honest fashion is almost fucking impossible. Finding one who even attempts to in good faith and still fails because of her nature is rare.
So this issue is downstream of subpar genetic specimens with outsized ego entitlement literally inventing a reality that doesn't exist. Of course the girl that is more popular than her is evil and her self insert character is a tragic saint assailed by injustice. Also she is secretly more beautiful of course. Male writers do this shit too. It is utterly pathetic. When writers include obvious victimhood angles in their writing with little to no bearing on actual reality I immediately check out. That's why I don't really watch much of anything anymore. Too many petty egotist writers.
self-hating faggot denying reality
Must be Tuesday.
What, loser can't have a nice house?
Does this mean all the popular kids live in tarpaper shacks?
Usually most popular chick was fine. It was the 3rd or 4th most popular girl who was a bitch.
It doesn't read as organic or believable, sorry.
Like, what else do they do when not changing bedpans and bathing the elderly, adopt orphans and save cats from trees?
there was no most popular girl in high school.
most people at a school don't know each other and never get to know each other.
Yea I would bully other girls and suck their boyfriends cocks.
How old are you? Do you know how fucked college admissions are in the past decade since they threw out merit and grade/test metrics as qualifiers? This is mild stuff for your average ambitious young adult. Most have volunteer resumes at 18 longer than a 65 year olds entire job history.
The truth is and has always been that the stereotypical popular chad/jock archetype from the movies is a fabrication and that in reality these are typically the kindest, most helpful and most well-adjusted people you'll encounter in your life. Conversely, the idealized kind-hearted nerd archetype from the movies is also a complete fabrication and in reality these are often the most bitter, hateful, nasty people you'll ever encounter. You'll find bullies everywhere but more often than not they'll be "nerds" or they won't fit into either group. And as others have said, some bullying is necessary and beneficial but some don't learn anything from it due to their own prideful arrogance and bitterness.
41 this year, and you know the only people I ever went to school with who were involved in actually community tier things?
The weirdos.
the leader of the bitch group was usually fine and you could talk to them but their orbiters were the worst
R.I.P her son's hairline. Never stood a chance.
I see parker posey I click
Man if I'd just pulled up those bootstraps everytime Chad wedgied me I'm sure he'd have given me his slow nod of approval and we'd have been best buds...
Why are Jewish men so neurotic and insecure?
That explains why you are out of touch. 32 here, it wasn't nearly as bad for me and my generation. I have a sister 22 yeara younger than me so I got to see her generation go through the process. That shit was insane.
is this the thread?
Case and point. You're fabricating scenarios that did not happen because you're a bitter nerd like most people on this website.
Case in point, Chad and the gorgeous elite are always infallible saints to you retards, they never do anything wrong because the point of their gentle chiding and constant harassment was just to make me more social, outgoing, less awkward, etc
Bullies are brown and closeted faggots that get hard thinking about abusing other males
She always had a place as the Dairy Queen
OP here, yeah I just wanted to posey post desu
Have you seen the "elites"? They are not chad and they are not gorgeous. Musk, Zuckerberg, Bezos, big Harv, etc. Lol.
This. In my HS the best students were usually the ones who were also big into sports. Meanwhile the "nerds" were the actual mean ones, and also often total fuck ups in their personal lives.
You're just further proving my point. I never said they were saints and I even said bullies can come from both groups (and sometimes outside of either group). You're putting your bitterness and impotent rage on full display and perfectly proving my point. Nobody is going to like you if you act like this.
They didn't like me before either because normals get scared when other people aren't precise mirror images of themselves. Sure am glad we established that the social hierarchy of adolescence is hell if you're not already popular.
You dunces are so are incredibly black and white about this. Yes some bullies are popular and good looking, some are smelly antisocial weirdos. Attempting to hurt others to gain a feeling of social dominance is not something that is limited to one type of person, same as kindness and decency.
I will say that bullying from a popular person hurts more by it's nature because there's no recourse for coping. You're just below them on the pecking order so you either eat shit or beat them up (which wouldn't change your status all that much anyway).
Yeah the most well liked girls in my school were generally pretty nice, even to lecherous ugly retards. There was one guy with a physical deformity who pretended to be retarded so he could touch them and get away with it. The actual pariahs in the schools were basically ignored by everyone. Everyone goes to high school yet there's still this pathetic revenge of the nerds fantasy stuck in the public consciousness. I went to high school after columbine though so maybe it was different before that.
I think all these fags that are saying bullying doesn't happen feel guilty because they bullied some poor fool back in school. You don't have to start a psyop to fix it, just try to be a better person.
The post you replied to had nothing to do with the theme and attitude of your post. You're projecting and likely deserve any bullying you get, real or imagined.
There we go, projection in it's proper form, the greentext.
invoking outside sites
Go back and stay.
We used to do a lot of house parties when I went to highschool in the early 00s. One time the girls kept saying “pussy flaps” all night long and thought it was hilarious. I suppose you could call it their meme of the night.
But one of them was rather chubby and had a lisp so she would pronounce it “pussy fwaps” which earned her that same nickname among the boys.
Later on at another party this time at my house she got completely wasted and sat down in the driveway puking on herself. She wailed out “somebody call my gwandma,” presumably to pick her up.
My mom owned a Radio Shack franchise. Yes remember them? So I borrowed a megaphone from the store and brought it to school. I gave it to my buddy and he walked around the cafeteria at lunch broadcasting “Attention: I have rost my pussy fwaps. Somebody call my gwandma.”
I encountered her some years later and I apologized for our behaviour and she accepted it. Then, a couple years after that I met her at another party and she had lost all the weight and said to me “you know how you guys to make fun of me well look at me now.” I responded “didn’t we make peace like two years ago?” and she had no reply.
Thanks for reading my blog about Millenial bullying.
bully fat weird girl
she loses weight and becomes more normal as a result
Bullying worked
The most popular girl in my school would fuck you if you asked her.
...she has 4 kids by 4 different dads now.
Apologizing for shit years later it's fucking useless. She probably just accepted to be polite.
Did she still have a lisp after she got skinny?
in this thread
"the popular kids were the cool people and the nerds were the loser who caused all the problems in school"
"nu uh the sports jocks and stacies were the real bullies and your just gas lighting them to still try to sniff their jock straps"
me a fence sitter saying you all sucked and I was the only enlightened one in school
People avoided you because they assumed you would go postal one day. You weren’t enlightened
You were one of the nerds
I was actually well liked and was voted president in school
Sounds like you were golden god to then.
This board loves gargling bully cock
This is just in regard to the webm, as it reminded me of something. I had a friend who loved watermelon, and every time he ate it he would always remind us just how great it tasted, how it was the best fruit, a day with it was automatically a good one, and so on. One day he told his girlfriend that he loved her more than watermelon, and she was honestly over the moon. I think she had subconsciously started to become jealous over the watermelons, since they got compliments from him more often than she did in front of us. So I can sort of understand what the guy is talking about in the webm, even though it may sound stupid on the surface. No, neither of them were black.
You're correct anon. The mean people were usually losers with bad home lives who ended up falling into crime. You don't become a start athlete without some amount of discipline and respect. High school was very clique-y, but no one tried to bully me except other nerds and losers.
She accepted your apology, but the bullying did happen, didn't it? She was merely reminding you of how she used to be viewed, not expressing continued anger. Though apologies obviously don't make sore feelings vanish instantaneously.
The popular girls always had like a 106 in class because they do all the extra credit and after school activities and fund raisers and shit. The fiction just isn't congruent with reality.
My high school was effectively a police state full of the children of helicopter parents, which really messed with the natural social structure of things. Basically no bullies, but the friendships and cliques were very weak.
"geeks" are actually repugnant people who mistreat others and themselves
geeks that became writers are actually projecting losers
actual school bullies are extremely disliked, come from broken homes and usually get expelled early in high school so they're not even a real problem after sophomore year
wow who knew?
Chad and the gorgeous elite
Jesus bro you have made them into supervillains in you're head. They are just people, same as you. More fortunate people yes, but having less fortune is not a valid reason to hate someone.
I went to a private high school that was not co-ed.
Without girls around to ascribe value to men, nobody really gives a shit about “popularity.” Everybody just hangs out with the people who they like and nobody gives it a second thought.
B-but I apologized
That doesn't mean it never happened. You're one of those "just move forward" type of people, I'm sure you have one hundred stories of you being a piece of shit.
The TV and movies trope is also that the popular jock is a bully. In my experience, the "bully" who I would always get into fights with was not popular. In fact it was usually the opposite. And in high school the guy who used to try to antagonize me was much more of the loner, introverted and awkward kid.
I used to bully a fat kid in grade school. Want to hear my joke?
Why did Kip cross the road (his name was Kip lmaos)
To get to the gas station. (he was fat so the implication here is that he farted a lot which he did)
Bullying IS anti-social behavior, you absolute moron.
Then you were a popular kid.
And trans women ARE real women
I think coolsville SUCKS
Every top of the food chain hottie at my high school, whether they were athletes or rich or popular for some other reason were generally nice.
Even the "mean" hood girls weren't actually mean, they just had low iq sociopathic delivery when they talked.
The only "mean" people throughout my school years were the mega-autistic nerds who would make some awkward attempt to fit in, which failed, and then they'd spend the rest of their education bitter and hostile about it. There weren't even incels, really, but I did graduate high school in 2012, so I might've just missed that wave.
I bet all these "the nerds were the real bullies " are actually the same guy and that's some kind of fetish
Nobody says the nerds were bullies, they can't be.
It's just that the meme nerdy jews created where every guy who played football in high school is a total asshole isn't accurate.
I thought this was the Parker Posey thread. Pathetic!
the nerds
Well we didn't have Revenge of the Nerds tier "nerds" in my high school. That, yet again, is a Hollywood fiction. I always found that the "bullies" (ie mean and maladjusted kids) were always either the white trailer trash scrubs/wiggers or the black future gangbangers. The jocks were always cool with me because I knew where to get the good weed. Maybe you should try having something to offer before thinking you should be allowed into a social circle.
It's not so much that they're bullies so much as they are miserable cretins who are often deserving of the treatment they received and who in their bitterness erroneously attributed characteristics to more well-adjusted, popular people which those people did not possess. This website is full of people like that. I don't understand how you can spend time on this website without coming to this conclusion unless you are still one of those nerds and you lack any self awareness.
Give a example of something they did that deserved bullying.
Give an example of bullying
Not bathing properly and smelling like shit and B.O., but being too autistic to understand that's a bad thing.
she gets along with everyone
how exactly
bullying enforces social norms and hierarchies and is therefore prosocial unless you're some kind of leftist nut that wants to upend society.
Nerds have a tendency to think of themselves as somehow better and more intelligent than normalfags. They often believe they aren't susceptible to the same pitfalls as the normalfags and they believe themselves to be less superficial and more accepting. They engage in antisocial behaviors and (intentionally or otherwise) subvert social norms. They often bring it upon themselves.
I assume this direct example didn't get a response because the dork who asked relates to what I described.
And the thing about people who smell bad is that at first, everyone else will try to ignore it, but if the smelly shithead seems persistent in their unawareness of how bad they stink, people stop ignoring it and start getting upset, and will treat you like an annoying, gross monster that they don't want to be around.
that's exactly how it goes. the mean girl trope comes from the phds in training who got zero attention.
look back at my yearbook years later
look at all the "hot" girls from back then
they were actually kind of ugly
they could just afford make up and nice clothes and did their hair
meanwhile the actual cute girls were overlooked
Did this happen to anyone else?
the whole "nerd" identity comes from this idea of a man that is low-status in high school because he's ugly, unathletic, socially awkward etc but will be highly successful in the real world because he's also intelligent, hard-working and passionate. hence the stereotype that the jock will peak in high school and then end up working in the car wash that the now-rich nerd brings his sports car to etc etc
however the identity then became embraced by kids who only fit the first half of the description, ie actual worthless losers, as a form of delusional cope. "geniuses often struggle socially, so i must be a genius." nope. for every awkward genius there is a thousand awkward retards fantasizing about their secret true value that doesn't exist and glorious future that will never come. they are incredibly arrogant and they deserve their misery.
Im not sure who the "most" popular girl was, but I remember quite a handful of fairly attractive girls being nice to everyone, including me and my nerdy friends, but could be kinda bitchy to each other on occasion. Everyone knew who the crazy bitches were and stayed clear if they could. Only clueless boys would orbit the crazy bitches.
One of the sweet popular girls I remember was this skinny blonde named Jenny. She would wear thongs and low cut skinny jeans. She had a bright smile and always excitedly said "hello!" back if you waved or greeted her in any way. Eventually, hugs too if you managed to get to know her. Ran into her a few years back while on a date at a steakhouse she was out server. Date was like 'holy shit you know everybody!' because it seemed like it everywhere we went I'd run into an old acquaintance eventually.
I remember her and her friends dating 20+yos while we were still like 16-17. Parties with girls like that were fun but awkward when they'd sneak away to fuck in the dudes car or whatever. All my gfs were right around my age until I landed a 21yo girl myself when I was 18. Made sense to me then but still, robbing the cradle was so accepted back then. I can't imagine any modern high school girl seeing a dude in college hitting on them as anything but creepy
The idea that getting good grades in high school of all places is representative of anything is a fallacy from the jump.
Not to mention the media that enforces that fallacy is made most often by people who achieved their status as a creative through nepotism or in some cases years of PA grunt work that anyone could've done.
I don't think you remember HS well because most pretty girls were bitches or bitches in training because they were learning to use sex to get what they want.
Back then all they wanted was attention, and that's what we, mostly unemployed high school boys, had in spades: nearly infinite time and attention to spare
Not only are they arrogant but they are bitter and hateful as well which only further subjugates them to the contempt of others and keeps them from moving. They're defined by their past essentially.
be socially awkward retard
the popular girl really is nice, but not nice enough to tolerate hanging out with your retarded ass, so she makes it clear she dosn't want to associate with you
"durr, she's mean!"
become a writer and write about how the popular girl is mean
You're confusing bullying with correctional banter. There's a difference between calling someone a faggot and beating them up for being awkward because it makes you feel better about yourself, and collectively calling a guy from your peer group a retard because he wants you to dare him to jump off a bridge or take an unlocked car with the keys in the ignition for a joy ride because you don't want him to ruin his life or health.
I remember thinking that teen movies were dumb and boring, but watching them just for the pretty girls as a kid. Same for teen sitcoms such as Saved by the Bell and Malibu, CA. God, even as a kid that was terribly unfunny. Who the hell unironically watched that shit? Or was it really all about the hot teen girls?
every high school movie has THE mean popular girl that terrorizes everyone
that's exactly how it was
There's a difference between calling someone a faggot and beating them up for being awkward because it makes you feel better about yourself,
and collectively calling a guy from your peer group a retard because he wants you to dare him to jump off a bridge or take an unlocked car with the keys in the ignition for a joy ride because you don't want him to ruin his life or health.
Those are both awful examples.
Bullying is bullying, whether there's a "point" or not.
If you bully the kid who smells bad every day for smelling bad, whether you don't really care what he does and just want to make fun of him or you do hope he takes a fucking shower when gets home, your intentions are irrelevant. Societally, however, it's a beneficial action.
Holy fucking shit that's literally me. Turns out I got prosopagnosia but normalfags have no sympathy for people like us.
I once was stuck waiting in a hallway for some reason I can't remember, alone with my school's popular girl and after like a minute of me being autistic and not speaking to her she straight up went
How come you don't got a girlfriend, anon? You're a good looking guy
Since I got the 'tism I can't tell if she was actually concerned, fucking with me or wanted to fuck me.
Still a virgin a decade later, anyway.
normalfags have no sympathy for people like us.
yes, deep down, people want you dead
they put you on the same level as those with down syndrome or no legs
and now ociety has progressed to a level stable enough that you can live your freakish life out in full, rather than get killed by your drunk, illiterate father when you're a kid because you're defective and you keep bugging him
I suppose it's up to you which of those two options is better
Since I got the 'tism I can't tell if she was actually concerned, fucking with me or wanted to fuck me.
You have more than autism if you haven't figured out she was just bored and curious even after you've likely reexamined that encounter dozens of times in your mind as you've gotten older
Yeah, no offense, but you're retarded. Having a point that's beneficial both to the person and society and communicating it to the person punished is exactly what makes it socially beneficial discipline instead of cruel and selfish bullying.
You should've been executed. Our wonderful nation doesn't need people like you taking up the resources that could be better spent on human beings that contribute to society with their presence and participation. Our community is only as strong as its weakest link and those who defy our cultural norms are our enemies, traitors to the future we strive toward without question!
cruel and selfish bullying
right, it's not
it's just bullying
Happened to me once too and of course i sperged out and was all autistic during our interaction.