Does stuff like this actually happen when you’re young?

Does stuff like this actually happen when you’re young?

When I was young? Yes
When you were young? No

Not to anyone here.

like what? super hot girls liking you even though you're a complete loser dork?
Yes, it used to, before social media
I was lucky enough to experience that time

yea, it just doesn't then turn into a romantic comedy or happily ever disney movie. it just kind of happens and you drift apart at some point just like with everyone else.

super hot

That's a child.

super hot girls liking you even though you're a complete loser dork?

Why did they do it?

she's super hot to children her age like the MC

yes and if you've never experienced, youre life has been irreparably altered - damaged, even

it's over for you, it always has been, you never stood a chance...

this

I hate these Hollywood films for fucking up my perception of life. The one that immediately comes to mind is I Love You, Beth Cooper. It infected my head that the hot popular girls really could actually fall for me because I’m just a nice quirky geek. That they’d come into my life and take me on an adventure that would get me out of my shell. They’d fall for me and kiss me. This would then give me a newfound confidence which would dramatically change my life for the better. I dreamt of it happening to me but it never did. I spent my late teens and early 20s with absolutely no self confidence and it ruined me

dad not being around did way more damage to you than the disney movies.

random youthful crushes + teen insecurity/ignorance about their actual SMV + naivete about social consequence from dating down

if you're born before the internet got big i think you have a pretty decent crack at this kind of thing but otherwise i think you'd be too desensitized to life because of the instant gratification granted to you by the internet and mobile devices.

Much younger. I asked a girl I knew at school when I was like 12 to show me her boobs and she took me behind the bathroom and pulled them out. She even let me touch them. Of course when she realised what she did, when she was older lied and said that I forced her to show them. I would just say how small they were and it make everyone more upset lmao.

Happened to me when i was 8 with another girl now im a tranny fag

discussing films with amature film maker and writer

we both like Wes Anderson

i recomend this film

upon watching it he refuses to discuss it with me

What did he he mean by this?

I made out with my cousin when I was 7

why was this thread deleted last time?

Used to kiss my redhead gf in public until our lips were sore when I was 16. Now I'm 34, over 100 kg and haven't talked to another real human in years. Feels good man.

when I was young yes, now I don't know. they would probably pull out their phones and goon to something idk

yeah it does. you missed this by being a shut in asocial gamer or whatever the fuck

Maybe in my next life haha

Yes but not for incels.

That sounds like Harry Potter but for a boy.

chad only

I had two girls lify up thier shirts to show me their training bras when I was in grade school. I wasnt into girls back then so at the time i wasnt sure why i should care.

Girls should still be like that then maybe we wouldn't have incels

Only if you're a chad
But nowadays that doesn't even happens to chads
You have to be a sigma male slayer to do this

They should remake this movie but call it brett cooper instead
Lol

It's funny how the internet has ruined the mystique of young love.
Like I can't even look back at my own in fondness, I'm just more grateful I'm not bitter like most of you, and that's sad.

A group of hot girls used to tease me everyday in middle school but I was a sperglord and would tell them to fuck off. I basically never spoke to a girl again until I was 20 and that didn't go well

Yes, it used to, before social media

100% this. Girls at that time simply didn't know how attractive they were because nobody was telling them. Then internet sites started popping up in the late 90s where you could post a picture of yourself and get rated and it was all over for the average guy.

is that a lesbian couple

Did he stutter?

why would made up stories ruin your own experiences? do you also compare your sex life to porn?

when we were 11-12 at the beach we regularly hide in a shack and took our speedos off, girls sometime touched our peepees while we stared and their vaginas doing literally nothing.
once, a girl's mom cought us and went berserk. all bigot parents were mad, they chided us so bad without explaining anything

This is true.
In junior high in the 1990s this girl wanted to make out with me once for no other reason than that the teacher put us on an assignment together, but I was too scared and avoided her for days.
She went on to become popular and I went on to become a dork.
I missed my chance, but I had the chance. I'm afraid with social media today this kind of thing wouldn't be possible.

do you also compare your sex life to porn?

Yes

Anon could’ve had this but chose not to

Why the FUCK did he do it?

If I had to guess, booze.

I fapped furiously to that scene

Fapping to 12 year olds

That's gonna be a yikes from me, my dude.

For normal people yes I assume. For me? No.

You have a lot to learn about American culture.

No.

are you still a virgin?

I am deformed and autistic. No woman will ever find me attractive.

I'm 26 years old and a virgin.

Nigga they're both underage stop saying they're "hot"

Only if you have parents who are not abusive but they're not paragons of perfection either.

If they're abusive, you will become a perfectionist to get away from them. If they are perfect, you will become a perfectionist to be perfect like them. Since perfection is objectively measured in school performance, you miss out on being vulnerable, taking chances with girls, etc.

Your shitty friends will also hold you down if they come from shit fucking families.

How do I move on from this? Watching coming of age movies destroys my soul and I end up crying. I feel like K when he realizes the memories were not his. Just a hollow robot with no pleasant memories of my own. I'm aware that most people don't make these idealized hollywood memories and the movies might even be wish fulfilment for the director but still it hurts knowing that these experiences do exist and I missed out on them. I just feel irreversibly broken.

I was a kid in 00s and did this not happen.

Wes Anderson finally made a Spider-Man movie?

We simply live with the pain.
There's people who fuck in high school and have rich successful lives and there's people born in impoverished countries and kids dying of malaria and shit. Life's just unfair.

Out of 10

Yes. Honestly I should have just settled for a mid tier gf than crushing over my impossible to get oneitis. It was the best I could have done with my autism but I had no father figure to give me advice. So I just went through life guided by my neurotic, controlling, narcissistic, overprotective mother. I think she's really happy I never got into a relationship and will never leave home until she dies

I was a virgin in high school but now at 30 i fuck as much as i want. You guys are dumb when you think that you can’t change your position in life, you just get stuck at the ”life is unfair” part.

Not for me

Anons talking about healthy biological sexuality development

WTF THAT'S A CHILD

Anons broken from not being properly socialized long to pick up back when they lost the track on socializing

YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED YOU FUCKING PEDO

Anons with a lot of internalized shame can't find the confidence to tell people what they like and what they want

LMAO WHY ARE YOU NOT CONFIDENT? IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT BRO.

I think she's really happy I never got into a relationship and will never leave home until she dies

It’s fucked up how some mothers want this. They’re literally ready to end their genetic lineage.

They should at least fuck their sons if they plan on doing this.

i lost my virginity at 19. I'm such a loser!

I don't wanna play loser olympics but if you've had sex, you literally wouldn't get it. It's like trying to explain the concept of flying to a fish.

Psychology hasn't picked up on it but there are beta men who want to be social, seek others for validation and can't get laid because they literally just have to put themselves out there. Then theres an uncategorized type of men who are self reliant, are comfortable with themselves when alone, get their gears grinded only when interacting with society and still long for companionship per biological impulses. You are a beta, you say you fuck as much as you want. I could be comfortable alone, and only be made happier with a companion. Think of Rhayader from the Snow Goose.

You aren't sad about missing out on a whole chapter of your life? I'm turning 30 this year and haven't kissed a girl. I feel that even if I manage to get someone now it's like 15+ years of love is missing.
She will probably already have done lots of stuff, and I'm not talking about some incel "all women are whores" thing here. But just the absolute gap in experience. I feel like something will be off there. I mean what kind of loser haven't even had his first kiss? I recently read something from a study with women at age 24 have had an average of 12 partners.
It's like people live in an entirely different world than me/us...

And unlike many else I don't blame anyone other than myself. I never shot my shot, I have asked out one girl in my entire life. I haven't tried to dance with anyone at the club, or started talking to one, never tried dating apps. I'm a pussy and becaue of it I get non.

girl in my class tried to pull my jogging bottoms down when I was 11 on a summer camp.
she didn't manage it, I didn't have any underpants on that morning.
it was while a bunch of us were sat in a circle, so not the best time.
would have been interesting if it had been in the woods alone together.
instead I became a wizard before I put my peen in a woman

I'm in the same boat. You should go back to college and stop giving a fuck about age gaps or anything, you would be kind of starting at the same level as 18 year olds. The tough thing is you still have to deal with the reasons you didn't develop a relationship in young adulthood, i.e fear of humilliation, lackluster social performance, conflict of values and so on. I don't know if getting laid is worth it if you stop being who you are, and I don't know if being who you are is ok if people hate the kind of person you are.

As of now my conflict is, I am too different from these people. They want to fuck to know themselves better, they don't want to fuck me (i.e know me) because I am not comfortable with fucking people I don't care about.

this thread and others like it are being inserted directly into scripts for the netflix propaganda series.
anyway, kissing is fairly easy if you do it a few times and don't be too eager.
i kissed my elder sister's friend when I was 12 and didn't enjoy it, it just felt weird. guess my hormones hadn't fully kicked in by that time.
skip forward to age 28 and finally kissed a woman. just copied what she did and improvised slightly each time.
you can make it, and better to start now than at 40.
face your fears, punch them on the chin in fact, and take continual small steps out of your comfort zone. start saying yes to things and stop letting obstacbles and excuses be at the forefront of your mind.
it isn't easy, but might as well do something while you're alive.
who gives a shit

good advice.
for your problem, just state that in conversation, "I don't do casual sex" and give your reason. some girls will be impressed by your steadfastness and find you interesting. others might find it weird or insulting, but you can keep it diplomatic. "I don't really enjoy sex outside of relationships, don't see anything wrong with it but just doesn't do it for me"

If you were born before 9/11 yes

You don’t think of you observed an entire class of seventh graders you’d be able to point out with great accuracy the kids who each gender are most likely to rank as most attractive?

Are people afraid a plane will fly into their house while theyre having sex now?

Hahahahahaha

Peter, are you the fucking SPIDERMAN?!

Interesting. What makes you think that?

I found your all-wool tuxedo-costume and your spiderweb desert boots

Ah. Well. This is embarrassing for me.

I am honestly mostly content by myself, but still have periods where lack of romantic partner feels insanely depressing, but I would not know what to really do about it. I am somewhat of a hermit in my free time and weekends now at 35, but I did live pretty social 20s in university (as a social late bloomer), but never realized how the whole intimacy and romance thing is supposed to function. I did go to multiple dates with a woman I met through online dating when I was 25, but all those dates were just talking until it fizzled out due to my inactivity. I just got no idea what to do to progress from that. Just try to guess when it is okay to touch her? Go out of my way to ask if it is okay to hold her hand or hug her? Nothing about that feels like it would come naturally. And now in my mid-thirties it does feel like it is a massive disadvantage in dating to be at this age and still be unsure about how holding hands works, it feels like finding a woman who would be patient enough for that is highly unlikely.
I did miss out on all teenage experimenting and experiences due to my parents being really Christian, and it feels like I missed out on all that for nothing since I did drift away from being religious anyways after moving out.

Genetic memory baked into every egg and sperm cell from the trauma of the day

Lel it's not like I'm running away from sex. It's that I can't bring myself to pursue a relationship outside of infatuation because I am genuinely not curious about people's lives, adapted myself to think things are not fun, they must be serious all the time because "I'm a serious guy", and after some weeks of trying to contact a girl, by the time I am confident to make a move, the infatuation is gone, replaced by refected self-loathing.

If I just asked out random women walking down the hall, I could probably fake it well enough to get a date, but then what am I playing for?

Kek how did you guess the age right?

I was maybe a bit sad about in when i was 20, but now it’s like whatever. Sure i missed out on the most ecstatic of sex (because your dopamine receptors are still so fresh) but whatever, big losses can happen in life. It’s not like sex can’t be absolutely amazing when you’re 30. And i don’t care about missing on teenage love, it’s dumb as hell as kids are dumb and i’ve had plenty of time to love after that. 15-20 is just a short time in your life, and literally the only part i missed was the sex, otherwise i lived it fully. You guys get over dramatic. You can literally start at any age and it will feel amazing because it’s something new for you.

got my first kiss at 11, she initiated

kissed 3 other girls from 12-13, all of them initiated

one of them absolutely loved me and could have been my gf

became a shutin gamer

still, about 3 other girls in hs were very into me and talked to me all the time, but nothing happened

lost my v card at 24

still feel bad about no teen love

I was dealt good cards and absolutely fumbled. Can't even whine about it.

I wasted my life watching porn and playing video games. Please feel bad for me.

I have to add that my first long term partner was 25 (i was 20) and despite our age difference the sex was still amazing and she fell for me hard. Sex really isn’t that hard lol, you’re overthinking it.

Wes Anderson didn't have to film children in their underwear kissing each other. He chose to do something that nobody expected or forced him to do. I don't understand why he gets a pass for doing this. It's disgusting and creepy.

The question is why did you resort to videogames, why do you think porn had anything to do with it?

It's not abusive or hurting anyone.

Imagine anything in the universe that can happen. Now subtract stuff that's actually illegal. You now have the things that can be in a movie. It's a lot of stuff. Relax.

He was just inspired by Dahl

I keep coming to these threads to whine but I just end up upset and angry.
This sucks. Everything sucks. I've tried and gotten nowhere. Everyone is either smug or condescending. I just want to feel like a person but I guess I never will. I want to kill myself and start over. I want to gouge out my eyes. I want someone to tell me I am worth love. Fuck all of you.

Coralie Fargeat had a little girl present in a performance with topless women, how did people not call him out for production and distribution of cp?

You are worthy of love anon. You're not at fault, other people made mistakes, you happened to fall in the slippery slope of negligence by everyone else. You got yourself hurt, now you're handicapped and need rehabilitation. You can get better anon. You may not be like them anymore but you can do well with what you still have.

We're still alone, we're not linked just yet, but we are here. Don't feel alone in this.

Have you tried going to a Gym

Lel

Nibba I don't care lmao

Go to the gym

push yourself hard, get frustrated, get over it, get ripped

Became a master of gym, still socially incompetent

Go to a music class

Make effort, fail, Make more effort, bounce back, perform well, perfect yourself

You became a master musician, still socially incompetent

Go to dance class

feel shame, bear through it, make effort, learn steps, fail, become agile, become a great performer

Become a master dancer, still socially incompetent

After years and years of effort, you become the Master of All trades. You stand alone at the top. Nobody reaches to you because nobody really needs your skills, and the way you went so far made you unreachable

generally relationships come from sharing - so ask her questions about her and her life, and after she's told you, tell her something about yours that is related to the topic. just talk for a bit less time.
she can ask you things, share more than you would with someone in general. it doesn't mean giving away all your secrets, can just be your thoughts on something or a childhood experience you never happened to tell anyone.
it's give and take like that, and it helps to build a bond and understand each other.
shared experiences also help, so do things together, overcome minor challenges, have fun, try new things.

the physical part, don't overthink too much. it will come more naturally once you start.
sit nearer to her than you would someone else, if you end up sitting right next to each other and you're both comfortable with one another, put your arm around her and share your warmth/comfort.
before that, it can be holding your look in her eyes for longer than you would normally, not forever, but just a bit more than would otherwise be comfortable.
speak your mind a bit, say you like how her hair is, if it strikes you.
hand holding, depends, usually after kissing for the first time. some like it, some don't. try it out.
generally it is trial and error in small doses, and doing more of what you feel like and seeing how she responds.
if she doesn't like one thing, it doesn't mean she won't like another. try things out.
be a bit bold.
it's worth doing, 35 is still a good age.

Have you ever tried saying 'Hi' to a girl?

How do I move on from this?

You move on by moving on and doing literally anything else with your time. If you do absolutely nothing with your time besides ruminate you can be destroyed by something as simple as a little kid calling you gay. If your life is a void you will by nature do nothing but replay problems in your head.

This is why you Have Goals™, and Get to the Gym™, and other trite platitudes you've heard a million times so your mind is focused and solution oriented.

Weird thing is, I've been an incel and I've struggled with getting gfs and depression in the past, but now I am happily married. Still, I come to these threads to suffer vicariously through incels voicing their grievances, as if I had become so accustomed to being depressed that when I'm not feeling depression my body reacts like its having a withdrawal crisis and I need to feel it vicariously through other people.

You're right it's society's fault I wasted my life watching porn and playing video games. Everyone is to blame except for me, they made me do it.

I just don't know how I can ever get over comparing myself to others. Simply by living in the 1st world and being able bodied and average looks/height I have it better than a lot of people but then I go outside or watch movies / youtube videos and see people who are so insanely good looking while also smart, charming and living in a beautiful appartement in one of the big cities and then I feel like a worm. These people are like superhuman to me. Just blows my mind there are people going through life seeing a beautiful reflection in the mirror, living in a beautiful sunny place and being surrounded by nice, interesting equally gorgeous people while I waste my life alone in my room talking to shitposters about inane matters. Even if I tried I will never be charming or talented enough to be around these people.

Imagine how some Latino/Latina from Venezuela would feel looking at you if you were in a Venezuelan city.

expand your search, if you want a serious woman, figure out where she might be, or even ask people who are outside your friend circle.
it might just be that most aren't that interesting for you. but there will be some somewhere that do spark your interest. I'm picky too when it comes to real interest, has to be somewhere about her.
as for the "serious" part, might in part be habit, what you're used to and comfortable with. might help if you 'let go' and practise doing that. you might realise it's not so scary, and girls around you might see something in you that they didn't before and reveal something of themselves to you.

Roald Dahl is a hero and the left and thirdies should be put in stocks for ever trying to attack his character.

those are cool scenarios youve come up with in your head to disguise your fear of failure and empty life as pragmatism

now go touch grass

You don’t belong in that world

try volunteering somewhere for a few months. need to break out of your cycle

Yes, but talking with her is not fulfilling. I start trying to find ways to solve the problems in her life. She doesn't want help, she wants someone who feels the same struggle and joys. I can't give her that.

I'd rather be in shape, have musical talent, and able to dance and alone-- than be a completely soulless talentless goyslop golem and alone. You're a liar if you say otherwise.

lol who wrote this wall of t-
oh it was me

And maybe that anon will meet a gril in dancing classes.

just richmax bro just Andrew tate hard bro just be normie bro

don't do that. instead just show understanding. it's hard, but do it.
i don't get it either, but it is how it works.

did anyone else reach the "acceptance" stage of grief of being single?

for years I was super depressed over never having a gf but now I genuinely don't give a shit. if I'm horny i'll jerk off but I just genuinely don't have the desire for having a gf anymore.

especially if he goes for a while 6+ months

touch grass

zoomer detected kys

stacy liking the class nerd

Never, it's just jewish fanfiction, just like nerds fighting their bullies. Most things you see about kids and teenagers in movies is pure, raw, jewish cope.

I have a wife who likes+ loves me but recoils from my touch. We didn't even have some early periods of insane sex that every other normie here has. It's ok. I've always been a dreamy guy and I always keep dreaming about lives I could have led (w regards to a career and love) had I not been a stupid, lazy, scared fuck.

I just want to feel like a person

Yeah I wish I could naturally do the right thing. Talk to people and make friends because I enjoy social interaction and not having to force myself because that's what a normal person should do. Read books because I enjoy it and not because I force myself so I can be a cultured adult. Cooking food because I find it satisfying and not because I need to force myself to stay healthy. Have a productive hobby because I wanted to and not because a self-help book told me I should. I just feel broken. Like I need to erase my personality and thoughts to function properly. Nothing I do on my own is right.

uh oh my retardation has been called out should I face the fact my argument is bad and change my life for the better or call someone a zoomer?!

lol

trvke

That comes in waves, because "acceptance" doesn't exist in any matter. Acceptance in grief means forgetting about the event. I have noticed you only regard as your "present time" the last 3 years of your life and experiences. Past those 3 years you forget the line of events that made you this or that way.

As for the "grief" of being single, that just means you're emotionally exhausted. Once you become comfortable again, you will have loaded the next bullet for the time you start longing for a new person you genuinely like, and you will feel it again.

Better work out your skills and mindset right now, before that important person you don't know comes across you and finds you unprepared.

I was a stupid lazy scared fuck and life turned out worse than yours.
maybe just start going to the gym every day and become a gigachad, while still appearing uninterested in her.
come out of the shower, muscled and with a tan and watch how she looks at you.
then spray habenero chilli sauce on her anus while she's sleeping, the fucking cunt

le epic doomer blackpillers have no response to this

before that important person you don't know comes across you

anon that's not going to happen. no one comes across me. i don't meet people at all.

read books because I enjoy it and not because I force myself so I can be a cultured adult

This gave me flashbacks to the times when I was trying to become a Anon Babble guy and download GBs and GBs of ebooks and read like two dozen literary novels and then I stopped and I never got back. I don't have it in me to be fit, charming and even smart/sophisticated. I'm just a bug. A big, fat, ugly bug. Ah well, It's only four decades until it's over.

dude, as an adult you have to force yourself to start doing something and keep doing it for long enough that it becomes a habit and then becomes natural.
do you think learning to walk was fun and easy, or was it forced by your parents so you could do it properly the rest of your life?
you just don't remember all the tons of shit you had to learn to do back then.
i seriously treat myself like I'm another person sometimes to make myself do it so I'll thank myself for it later on.
just do it and stop thinking and metanalysing your life.
it's ALL JUST PRACTICE

Do you even go out?

implying i didnt do all those things lol

retard zoomer

Yeah sure. When I was 7 my grandma stroke me willy. But its allright, tranny porn is easy to find now.

You too need rehabilitation anon. The tools aren't available yet, and CBT comes short of it. Psychiatrists don't know better either and they'd just put you on pills.

What you really need is time to attune with genuinely liking things again. There's a lot to do at the same time, you have to get rid of the shame and start exposing to others little by little. You have to hold on to the little dregs of surprise, fun and joy, and not put pressure on them but let them rekindle. Imagine a strong gust trying to snuff a handle from your hands, the flame is almost extinguished but it will light again.

I know what it's like because I'm in that situation. I fear that candle could be put out, but protecting it too much may deprive it of the oxygen it needs as fuel.

t. gregor samsa.

Solid advice, I guess, I'll keep it in mind if I miraculously end up on a date somehow, I am bit of a doomer about my prospects in modern online dating, my few social circles have no single women. I have been in some book events (just to leave home more) where there are women, but I got zero idea how to even do a cold approach. Truth be told I'm also worried of thinking too much of it and making it awkward, I don't know how I could tell apart woman being just nice from woman being interested.

The excitement and mystery of sex is probably what I miss the most about youth.

Anon. Don't lie to yourself. It has happened before. You will feel infatuated again. When that happens you will tell yourself you're a retard in order to not fall in love. Then it will happen again, another will come and you will tell yourself the same.

You watch porn yourself, you like the women in porn. There are women like them out there, they WILL come accross you, it's you who keep them away and then you lie to yourself.

And you lie to yourself because you fear if you tried you could get hurt from not having the skills to make them yours. And you're not mistaken. But the truth part of your statement is that you will fail for not having the skills. It's not necessary to chastise yourself for being human and wanting to connect. Give yourself the chance of feeling alive again, not for the sake of happiness, no that won't come any soon, do it for the sake of feeling alive.

How can you practice if you're lying to yourself about being interested in these women? What if you really don't care about them, just find them attractive and want to make out and touch them?

I can't lie to myself, and I don't want to hurt others either, I don't want to hurt them for their sake, but to not feel guilt over doing it. I hate the "player" mindset because it pushes me to be something I am not.

No you didn't. Why do you feel the need to lie on an anonymous imageboard?

imagine being able to remember this feeling whenever you want

Never happened to me, neither when I was young neither now.

go out where? the only time I really leave the house is to either shop or go to the gym

You know what feeling I try to remember instead? A pure night sky without any light on the land. It's just you and the old gods shining down on you, just like every other man that came before this shitstain society looked up in times of need.

if she bleeds she breeds you dirty hag-glorifying wanker

what? so you're saying we're not supposed to understand that she's attractive in the setting and out of his league?

anon discovers online humor

Anons are making fun of you but I absolutely get it

no... why?

NEET?

Of course being a fat slob who does nothing, knows nothing will be better, right?

I mean it'd be indifferent. Imagine you're the last person on earth. You die eating on your sofa or become a triathlete and it would be the same, because nobody would know/care and you'd still die alone.

she's a big girl

It's not that he will know better doing these things. It's that these broken people will look towards performing rather than enjoying the activities, because they are so accustomed to being judged that they will try to great effort to be the best and burn out in the process. And thus you may tell someone to go to the gym, go back to school, get a job, move elsewhere, he will do these things. You tell them to go to the bar or club and chill and they won't do it because they don't feel like they can spend a second without pushing themselves to be "better". They may even try talking to girls, they may lose their virginity and they will feel empty afterwards.

You're getting really defensive over being a pedo. Maybe you should stop doing that.

More like they'd quit only after a while.

There just has to be at least one incel thread every day. I never understad it. If being alone eats you up that much how about you take steps to change it? There arr so many people out there, just take your shot at them one by one, learn from previous mistakes and go. You will 100% get your dick wet eventually and probably sooner than later.

All i see in you people is laziness and entitlement. No, women won't just go up to you and ask if they can.suck your dick. You have to act and build experience, you dumb fucks. Even if a girl eventually walks away from you, you'll know what to do, so getting that next relationship will be infinitely easier.

Testing

I genuinely have no idea how to progress further in that onwards from the point of talking with a woman. I guess I could ask the next time but the woman probably would think it's weird.

There has to be at least one ince thread every day

The problem is caused by a change in social dynamics and these guys are struggling to adapt.

if being alone eats you up that nuch how about you take steps to change it?

The problem is rooted in neuroplasticity, this takes many months of consistent dissonant cognitive work to achieve, naturally it leads to frustration along the process.

there are so many people out there

Who feel judged if they don't play by the rules, e.g. women won't take the initiative. Or they have needs of their own, e.g. women looking for confidence instead if giving compassion.

You will 100% get your dick wet

Which was never the issue. They will keep suffering through unfulfilling relationships filled with cheating or abuse

I'd rather like to ask you why do you complain about it? Do you feel personally attacked? Do you feel these people invalidate your own achievements?

Obviously a zoomer because this is absolutely not true lol. Super hot girls always knew they were super hot.
The main difference between then and now is that mid girls all think they're super hot because they're insta dms are filled with dozens of indians asking for coochie pics. An average guy used to have a lot more luck with an average girl. But super hot girls were always out of reach for regular dudes.

I'm starting to understand incels a little better. Like when you guys express disbelief and wonder why people work so hard, how they keep going, how they pull through difficult periods without giving up.
Normal people all have their childhood memories like this to fall back on and give them strength. They've all felt love and the excitement of being young and discovering new feelings and experiences together with their partner. A common thing I've seen incels say is the "juice isn't worth the squeeze". I guess it's easy to believe that when you've never gotten a single drop of juice in the first place.

So what you're saying is my youth was stolen from me and it's not my fault?
Cool, I'm going to blame external factors instead of myself

The threads are getting a lot worse too. Anons are writing novels to explain why they can't just talk to a girl.

It's a very bitter feeling once you start to age, regardless of incel status at the time.
In fact, if you become a loser, it makes things worse 100x.

I've never had a single female friend. It'd kill me if I approached a girl ( even to make a friend) and I got publicly humiliated.

Does stuff like this actually happen when you’re young?

Not anymore at least not in the western world. Last millennium it did.

You don't know, so how about take some risks? If it blows up in your face then you'll know to try something different next time. You are insecure in going further, so you just stop and never get better at it. If you really cannot figure it out on your own, ask friends or ChatGPT.

this literally happened between me and my girl cousin

I suppose I'm way too nervous making women uncomfortable.

I had sex when I was 9

But did you have sex when you were not nine?

People are just big teenagers into their 20s. You were always just a late bloomer, and your advice doesn't apply to anyone who actually belongs in this kind of thread.

Get a sense of humor. These threads are great.

How did they get away with this?

ugly jew dork

red head girl

this is a staple of american cinema

There's been a complete redhead erasure, now it would be a black girl with a massive afro

when you can't see the stars anymore there's still the moon. I'm sure they'll find a way to destroy that too, like musk put that puke in our sky without asking anyone if they wanted to see father xhristmas riding across the sky every night.

invest in a high quality ghilli suit and hide in the woods near a joggers path.
makes it much easier the approach women, they'll never see you coming.
soft shoes

trial and error. find a place where you can just talk to women with no objective. the more you do it the more you find out how best to communicate.

thats because in modern LA you can't find white people at all, nevermind red heads
Also with the rampant casual race mixing with hispanics, they'll just disappear

get away

I love how zillenials are so fucking mind-broken by the system that they're not only hyperaware of instances of illegal couplings (adult having relations with a minor) that they're creating new "illegal" couplings that don't even fucking exist, like "adult dating a much older adult" or "minor dating another minor". I bet every one of you drones thinks you're "free thinking" and "unrestrained", too...

Anons believe any tiktok in their face but in reality no one actually gives a shit about this

with what?

in front of their face*
I was typing way too fast lol!

It happened to me. Looking back, it was nonsense. All young people do is go waste money and consume food, movies, bullshit. No bonding. People here are psychotics with no life experience and fetishize the stupidest, most mundane things. Sad.

you kissed a sickly jew boy and later realised it was stupid?
no refunds

When's the last time you put down whatever electronic device overloading your senses and were left alone with yourself, your thoughts and the ruins you've created out of your life?

Yes, it did before cellphones.
But it never lead to happy ending, you could attract a girl, but then you would los

So I won't go to jail? The neighbors won't look at me funny?

>You don't know, so how about take some risks? If it blows up in your face then you'll know to try something different next time.

There's no next time now that you'll be recorded on Youtube/Twitter/whatever the fuck It's not 1999 when you could just talk to women in bars.

I've done more than you can imagine.
when's the last time you didn't check your social media

You're on a Japanese cartoon forum primarily made for imbecile teenagers to waste time and fry their brain. You've done nothing with your life. Get a grip. If your life was worth anything, you would not know this site exists.

OP is never going to recover from this.

I fucking love this movie but finding out the male actor irl is such an irksome pestilential jabberer really put me off it.

this nigga thinks the FBI actually arrests pedos

imaging thinking pigs arrest their own.

You will never know this feel.

AIslop

Anon I already want to kms

Based blind anon

This is what your great grand nephews and nieces will experience.

I met up with a girl last night in her apartment and we talked for like 2 hours in the fire escape stairs in her apartment complex. She's 19 tho and I'm 28 but I never talked to girls in my teenage years, they always used to just fucking laugh at me. Now past 2 years it seems more and more girls are interested in me, but last night felt like a teenage love moment.

I had a brief moment like this for 1 year when I worked at a target. Somehow made friend group, but slowly they all started leaving til I realized I was the last one left with 2 others.

yes but with my cousin

How did you do it? Girls still don't talk to me

Looks are the first thing anyone notices, if you are any bit attractive girls will never have problems approaching you. It's after that initial stage tho where I fuck up. I'm not ugly but I'm also very autistic, i still live with my parents at 28 for example, she doesn't know this tho, she thinks cause I'm older I got my life sort of figured out. But mentally I am 19 like her, i don't have much life experience

Girls still don't talk to me

YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO TALK TO THEM FIRST DIPSHIT

Fuck this site and everyone in it. I hope every single one of you die a painful death.

I knew that feel as a teen when I was involved in local church's youth activities. The camps and trips in particular are very cherished memories for me. I eventually just stopped attending it during the high school (most of my friends from there had already stopped) and just drifted away from religion too.
I still sometimes think of giving church a chance just to have a community and admittedly for the ulterior motive of maybe finding a relationship (I'm a wizard in my 30s), but it would be wrong of me to just go there and larp without actually believing in it.